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[hino]

i have the same problem you have,my girlfriend wants it quick and easy all the time when i just want to go all night,and i ask her all the time dont girls love it long?and she says no that she just wants it to be over.does anyone no why she doesnt like it to be long?

[abitdark]

i have the same problem you have,my girlfriend wants it quick and easy all the time when i just want to go all night,and i ask her all the time dont girls love it long?and she says no that she just wants it to be over.does anyone no why she doesnt like it to be long?

Because she isn't enjoying it. there is something bothering her about it.

[hino]

its shouldnt be that she liked it at first,and she has never slept with anyone else

[David]

To me foreplay is a demonstration of how much I want to continue this relationship with my partner. Foreplay is very important for the woman and probably for the guy too. You need to find a partner who shares your enjoyment of it. If a guy is content with sticking it in and getting it over, he is probably a selfish person. You might either need to find a less selfish person or a friend with benefits that is less selfish. Foreplay needs to be considered as part of the fun of sex, not a laborous part. For me, it is a great feeling to be able to give a girlfriend great orgasms- and most of the time that occurs during foreplay. Guys need to consider that during foreplay you get to get to know your woman much better and that your techiques and experience will make her want to have sex with you all the time. When I was a teenager, lasting very long seemed difficult. However, there are techniques to learn that will allow you to last longer. First of all, when a guy realizes he is about to cum, quickly think of something else. Think of an upcoming big football game or some chore you have to do... anything to take your mind momentarily off the pleasure. Stop moving for a moment and ask her to stop... as you get your feelings focused back on pleasuring her. If need be, stop intercourse for a moment and return to giving her oral sex. You can squeeze the end of your penis- or she can very very tightly to end those "gotta cum right now" sensations. There is something to be said about boredom in the bedroom. As time goes on, it is harder to put everything out there with foreplay and great sex... but no doubt there is great things to learn about that too. In the end, the guy has to place pleasuring his woman as the most important part of making love. If he will do that, he will enjoy great lengthy and frequent sex.

[Jay Jay]

u have to train him.......foreplay is good......set the pace...when he is getting too excited slow down...withdraw....wank off him a little......communicate

worked for me...maybe it'lll work for you.......if not try artifical enhancers like viagara or sumpn

[Jay Jay]

oh and as the guy above me said.................when he is about to cum, tell him to think of sumpn else