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[Rose]

Im 45 and never put up with this. But 2 years ago i completely fell head over heals with a guy who would always lay his hands on me. He did not punch me in the face but he did alot of other things hold me down,knock me in the head with his head,alot of demeaning words,choke me,in front of my kids he was always addicted to his zanax and would literally go crazy when he had none. He used drugs since he was 14 and his parents was always doing them script and non. He tried to wean off meth and for 2 years he did but then he went back to it once a week behind my back-I finally kicked him out I did not want to be choked anynore and it was all over a phone=he would think I snuck his phone-I did not I did not want to wake him-he was sick he decided to choke me-I loved him and he had many factors against him-I really wanted him to stay loving him but the meanes had to go. I feel if I stayed with him the meaness would be forever and his smart mouth that was THE WORST. Sure he had child abuse and was hit all the time as a kid-thats why I had EMPATHY, I would not hit back but I would yell at times in frustration of his frustations-he now is gone and is living with this lady that givesd him pain pills all the time -this would mellow him out-Good thing I was gonna get a doctor to get this for him and this would help with his back pain and -pain all togther but hes gone -He will be missed he did have many good points I would tell him about-but oh well he is gone

Dear Mary..
You should know that everything happens for a reason.. For sure you will find someone who will appreciate and love you.. I know it's difficult to forget someone, especially if you still have feelings for them.. but sometimes it's better to let go and move on with life..

Good luck
P.S : couldn't answer back with an e-mail, i think it's because we are in diffirent areas

[Brooke]

Well, first hand I ended my 14 year marriage due to domestic violence. No woman deserves that kind of treatment. A man should never lay his hands on someone who he claims he loves.

[Glenn]

To everyone out there, ladys & gents, girls & boys...

Today at my work place, all of a sudden a guy walks in, beats the hell out of his wife infront of all the employees and the clients, beats up people who tried to stop him and leaves, the poor lady had blood all over her face, and i think she might have a broken nose and maybe some broken teeth!!! Can you believe that?? Can't he sit and talk to her to solve what ever problem he had with her in a civilized way and in privet like other human beings do?? Or was he just showing people his muscularity.. Beating a lady dosen't make you more of a man, it just shows how weak you are..What justification a guy has to beat up a lady, i don't care if she's your wife, your girl-friend, your sister or what ever, you should NEVER EVER raise you hand on a lady,especially when you are angry..
If i'm in that ladys shoes (God forbids), i will never go back to him, even if he's the last man on earth..

I wanted to share this sad story with you, and to see what you all think about this.. So feel free to write what you think..

Take care..

A waste of resources, make them useful and use them for fertilizer, not much good for anything else. Unfortunately all laws forbid it, stupid laws.

[Glenn]

What's the point of this topic? What do you think of a guy who beats a lady?

Really?

Maybe we need a topic of "What do you think of a guy who kills people?" Sounds interesting.

Good point, was a dumb question when the answers a given.

[Mattie]

What's the point of this topic? What do you think of a guy who beats a lady?

Really?

Maybe we need a topic of "What do you think of a guy who kills people?" Sounds interesting.

Good point, was a dumb question when the answers a given.

Not necessarily. I have known men who have told me that they have no issue with smacking a woman around if 'she deserves it'. They would say 'good, put her in her place'. Yes, they were that honest and yes, they were serious and they said it in front of others.

[Rose]

What's the point of this topic? What do you think of a guy who beats a lady?

Really?

Maybe we need a topic of "What do you think of a guy who kills people?" Sounds interesting.

Good point, was a dumb question when the answers a given.

Am sorry that you think it's a dumb question, if you think so, it would've been better if you ingnored it and not waisted your time answering it.. Let other people who might have something to say, or been in this situation to share their stories or their opinion..

Peace..

[Ronnie]

A man who beats his partner, male or female, is not a man. I don't like abusers.

[Rose]

Well, first hand I ended my 14 year marriage due to domestic violence. No woman deserves that kind of treatment. A man should never lay his hands on someone who he claims he loves.

Am sorry to hear that Brooke.. Thank God it's over.. Wish that you will find a nice loving guy who will appreciate you...

Peace..

[Missparkles]

I think anyone who resorts to any form of aggression to solve a problem that can be solved by communication is no better than an animal.
Male or female.
My sympathies lay with any kids of an abusive couple.
They're the ones that are scarred for life.
And then the cycle of abuse keep on turning.

Sparkles.

[Eric]

To everyone out there, ladys & gents, girls & boys...

Today at my work place, all of a sudden a guy walks in, beats the hell out of his wife infront of all the employees and the clients, beats up people who tried to stop him and leaves, the poor lady had blood all over her face, and i think she might have a broken nose and maybe some broken teeth!!! Can you believe that?? Can't he sit and talk to her to solve what ever problem he had with her in a civilized way and in privet like other human beings do?? Or was he just showing people his muscularity.. Beating a lady dosen't make you more of a man, it just shows how weak you are..What justification a guy has to beat up a lady, i don't care if she's your wife, your girl-friend, your sister or what ever, you should NEVER EVER raise you hand on a lady,especially when you are angry..
If i'm in that ladys shoes (God forbids), i will never go back to him, even if he's the last man on earth..

I wanted to share this sad story with you, and to see what you all think about this.. So feel free to write what you think..

Take care..

luckey i was not there to see that becasue that guy will be blooding so much that the cops would have to bring me off him i do not take shit like that and for one if i ever seen somthing like that i would help the woman out like do not set there and watch like omg