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[Angel j]

I am resently seperated from a 8yr relationship it has been rocky due 2 his controlling unhuman behavior,but i have found fforgiveness(dont know where) understanding,UNCONDITIONAL LOVE to this man,he says things as he never wants to see my nasty p---y again,go find someone else to have sex with,call me names whore,stupid bitch etc.. but he would meet me places have sex/i'd pay his cell bill 3mins later he never wants to hear from ###stantly after sex he has this attitude!! He is cruel!!!!!! tells me to go kill myself he dont care,,, spred lies to his family and friends about me,,when i would tell him i missed him he'd tell me to shut the f--ck up i was a broken record WE HAVE LIVED TOGETHER ALL THESE YRS i did call cops the 3rd time he beat me dropped charges underagreement w/ statesattorney IF he was abusive w/in 12 mths the'd pick up both charges 11 months into he hit me again i again went to states attorney expressing consern of jail,loosing job that he was finnally holding etc.. he got angermanagement,I WAS HIS TRANSPORTATION 2 and from CLASSES,& WORK due to 2cd DUI he received cause he was mad I had flu and wasnt able to attend plans. WHY DID I DO SO MUCH???? I love him I felt all my sacrifising would pay off in the ### had bad childhood,alcholic,couldnt hold a job etc..... What did I do wrong? DID he ever love me? I told him again how much he ment to me,I didnt & dont see or want another person!!! HE TELLS ME TO DAMN BAD LEAVE HIM ALONE I am so confused he says take it day by day i he does love me just cant be w/ me right now ( someone that is helping finiancially wont help )lol.. I have 3 kids a grandchild,and I am so depressed and miserable I am suicidual.. PLEASE HELP

[Rich]

Beautiful lady, I don't know you but I will tell you this, this person is NOT a real man, he is a punk that tries to be a man. I cannot tell you what you should do but honey there are so many REAL men out here that would treat you as you should be treated, with real love and affection, gentleness and caring... I know I would.. take heart sweet one we are out here. I hope you find the love and passion you deserve. Passionately, Me

[Jilly]

What he said ^

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[Red51]

ditto on this.

You also need to be strong. No more sex with this torturer. He is dangerous to your future. No more paying his bills. If he doesn't want you, then let him taste being without you. And don't answer his calls. He's using you to avoid standing up in life. Visualize it as helping him grow a couple, because he certainly doesn't have any right now.

The toughest pill you need to swallow: Getting over this loser will take time. Your relationship was an enabling one... the more you did, the less he had to do, such as get and hold a job. So, do nothing and heal. .You do not need him. He, however, needs you (or someone like you, which he'll soon have in place) because all you did for him. Be strong. And pity the next woman that he'll try to destroy, not yourself--you're worth far more than that.