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[Meg]

Guys, help me out? Putting aside all physical attributes, what one single quality do you look for in every potential mate? (ex: confidence, sweetness, humor, etc)
Thanks y'all

[abitdark]

With all honesty, Intelligence. For me if they can't hold a good conversation or any variation there of, its a huge turn off for me. Second would have to be drive/ambition. I have had a few bad experiences where the woman just did know what they wanted in life and didn't bother doing something to figure out.

[thedeadpoet]

I'll echo the words of abitdark. Intelligence in a female is paramount, as with individuality, ambition and reason.

[Christopher]

I like the sweetness/kindess of a woman.
Its the one quality to me that is very important because later on when you grow older and beauty fades if you get stuck with a b!tch then your screwed =p

[Meg]

[quote="Christopher"]I like the sweetness/kindess of a woman.
Its the one quality to me that is very important because later on when you grow older and beauty fades if you get stuck with a b!tch then your screwed =p[/quote

Lol very true

[abitdark]

I like the sweetness/kindess of a woman.
Its the one quality to me that is very important because later on when you grow older and beauty fades if you get stuck with a b!tch then your screwed =p[/quote

Lol very true

What do you think is the most important quality in a person in general meg?

[Meg]

For people in general I would say kindness. I mean obviously a lot of other factors go into making someone a "good person," but I think kindness is at the center of it all.

Of course I could easily be wrong. It's happened before...many times lol.

[abitdark]

Lol, I think it has happened to most of us on here. I'm generally a very good judge of character and my emotions dont tend to get in the way of that. but it seems when it comes to romantic interests, they just seem to change

[Meg]

Well that's okay; it's hard to be rational and emotional at the same time, or to have feelings for someone and to not put that person on a pedastal so to speak.
I guess what Im trying to say is that love takes away people's ability to be rational.

[abitdark]

True, it does. Unfortunatly because of that I'm more rational then emotional now