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[Kelly]

I am a straightforward person. I tell the truth so if you ask expect an answer you may not want to hear. Are guys turned off by women like me? and if so...why? truly puzzled about this.

[Optiron]

This is not a question that has a one size fits all answer. To put it simply, some guys can not handle a women that is strong and opinionated and not afraid to tell you what she thinks. Some guys prefer such women. I am one that everyone be honest with me. But here is the trick, learn to be brutally honest without being brutal. Offer criticism as suggestion etc. You can be straight forward and honest and nice at the same time. The whole saying of attracting more bees with honey applies. But under no circumstance cease to be who and how you are, in the end it has to come back out.

[Kelly]

Hi Optiron,
Thanks for the feedback. However, I don't do diplomacy very well. It appears to be part of my personality as it comes out not only in my personal but also professional life. I am simply straightforward and I can not think of how to be any other way. And I do think (although I may be wrong) that I do the nice part really well. I only get nasty when or if I am provoked but I will take your opinion into consideration. Thanks.

[tanya]

hey ya! dont change, there is nothing wrong with a strong, straight up women, and you will find the right one for you1