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[Jim]

What's with all these random winks and messages to women?
Telling them how Hot they look & leaving them your MSN or cell#
Do you know how many of these type messages these women are getting - many
you're not the only one harassing them with your hey baby let's hook up lines...
It just seems to smell of desperation...

Maybe if you were a bit more selective you'd have better luck!

[Joshua]

honestly i was extremely hesitant coming onto this site but looking at alot of the messages left im not surprised at some of the guys...alot of them just seem to be sex crazed teens (or at least giving the impression) to many indecent people these days, am I right?

[Jim]

honestly i was extremely hesitant coming onto this site but looking at alot of the messages left im not surprised at some of the guys...alot of them just seem to be sex crazed teens (or at least giving the impression) to many indecent people these days, am I right?

I think they don't realize the crap women put up with on these sites, some of these guy's think they are real studs - looking at some, I'd say they have a false sense of ego. There's nothing wrong with being clear about your sexual needs & wants, but a lot of it is so cliché. You can't blame teens however, it's the adults that are scary. Married men looking for affairs, 20 yr.old photos, I just read an article in the paper:

"Sadistic predator gets 8 yrs - Targeted single moms through the web" - one reason to avoid of pics with your kids.

I've made more women friends on minekey with my "out there opinions" than on any dating site. But that is not a dating application & it can get very controversial - people are banned all the time. Even on Couchsurfing some guys are racing to offer a couch to every female who makes a request.

I just don't get some of these men, for the most part I'm sure they are ignored. Many they should ban a few people here. If someone is bugging you with endless winks & e-mails report it.

[Angela]

Well I never - guys actually seeing that others guys can be jerks! As a 'newbie' it's quite difficult to decide whether to respond to flirts but when it's an 18 year old flirting with a 41 year old (me!) it just strikes me that someone is taking the mickey or looking to make fun of you once they have your attention. So question for you guys then, how do you know when someone is being genuine?

[Adam]

Angela, that 18 year old may seriously be wanting something - I've had relationships with women up to the age of 35 from that age (purely sexual) and that's why some people use sites like this. It's up to you to filter the winks etc, personally II don't do that kind of thing now but at that age I would have used a site like this to get as much sex as possible, be it ith 18 year olds or 40 year olds

[Endora]

Adam you make me wish I was 10 years younger! A combo of Ryan and Seth sounds rather divine, and you talk sense which is very attractive. Sigh.

[Hossam]

Hmmm couldn’t help myself replying back to you all, you can never rely on dating site for a hubby or for a true B or G friend and if you found 1 then you’re 1 in a million as ppl tend to simply kill time with the net dating sites,

There is no respectable site and other can be classified so if you can’t find your true friend around you then all you ask for is just talk freely with someone you don’t know and sometimes it helps, only friendship (with restrictions) can be the outcome from those sites and for me I must say that I have a very solid friends through some of the sites in here and it lasts for over years now which is really nice and I do respect this.

Yes for sure guy’s number 1’s target is to give it a try for sex and if it worked then why the hell not lets do it.

Well unfortunately this is how men and women were different, women are looking for someone who couldn’t be found in their real life, or the majority were just got out of disappointing relation and decided to dive into net with high hopes.

And those women normally tend to be a bit more sentimental than others who is being more practical in life, but at the end you can’t just fight the temptation of an easy way of communicating others in such fast and easy way.

Well hopefully one day all realize that truth are the only thing that will get you to a normal life but I guess no one learn except when he/she face the same.

So you better watch out ladies, as there are some weird ppl out there

Hope I didn’t talk that much and hope my msg will be acceptable by you dear all in here and wishing u a life full of true friends all around as I belive that friendship is the only relation that lasts for real (if it is for real) without any benefits whatsoever

Your friend

Hoss

[Jim]

you talk the talk but do you walk the walk:)

[Angela]

Unfortunately Adam makes me wish I was 20 years younger! And yes, I probably would have been into the no frills, wham bam, thank you mam approach! Sex doesn't scare me, it's the being used and abused bit about it that puts me off - I am also not looking for the man of my dreams (that dream turned into a nightmare!) and even if I was, I don't think I would find him on this site. Maybe I am on the wrong site altogether - sex for me comes after the friendship and getting to know someone - I could get casual sex just walking into a bar and saying hello to the first guy propping up the bar! (well, that may be a bit overconfident but you know what I mean!?) There have to be genuine guys on here though, it stands to reason - I am genuine and on this site, so there HAS to be some genuine guys looking for the same thing. Is there?

[kokopelligirl]

All a female has to do is be online after 1:00 AM and the booty calls start rolling in. What part of "not seeking intimate encounter" do you not understand?. Yes, alot of jerks out there that think they are the EXCEPTION.

I also have a "No soliciting" sign on my door. Every other night some idiot is banging on the door despite the "Private Property" and " No Tresspassing" signs.

You completely give up any sense of prvacy you have once on the net.