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[Janine]

So Im wondering what signs you guys give to show a gal you are interested? From both the shy men as those not shy?

Oh, and does a gal that takes the first step a scary thought to you all you mucho males?

[Ross Jackson]

eye contact..alot of eye contact means interest.. obviously paying attention too.

[Janine]

And if a guy talks to the mother of the girl and only smiles at her? Thank you for replying.

[Karmallama]

Depends if he's a shy guy or not. If he's talks to the mother a lot and is at ease, but only smiles at the daughter, then if he's shy it could mean that he's nervous talking to the daughter because he likes her. Or he could be nervous if she's giving him 'the signs'.

If he's normally reasonably confident then it probably means nothing to be blunt. He needs to talk to the mum and doesn't have much to say to the daughter.

There's a whole array of variables and theoretics about the situation, but in my opinion, that's the abridged version. No doubt others will see it differently.

[Janine]

Would it be seen as a gal sending out signs if she visits a guy in hospital or at home after an injury and she doesnt know him that well?

[Karmallama]

It'd be appreciated, but I don't know if he'd get that message. I got messed up in a car crash years ago, and this girl I hardly knew visited me two or three times while I was in hospital.

I ended up going out with her about a year later, and she told me that she was trying to drop hints at that point.

Mind you, I never was good with subtlety. I'd say go and visit the guy, take him some grapes and Lucozade and just sit and chat for a while. Worse comes to worst he'll think nicely of you.

[Janine]

Haha, I took him biltong and a chocolate. But hes at home and well i greeted him with a hug and he hugged back and then he mostly spoke to my mother and smiled at me. Invited him on facebook and I dont know whether I should send him a msg or wait for him to send one?

[sweetness]

I'm sorry, but if a guy is interested in you he would move mountains to let you know. I think he thinks you"re going to be a great friend.

[Janine]

Thanks. Ok cool. Friendship is fine too. Less painful.. Lol.

[Karmallama]

I dunno, sometimes guys need things suggesting to them before they think to do it.

If you're interested, ask. You get nothing if you don't ask.