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[Janine]

Ok, so its not on purpose and it happens over time plus its to keep the other happy.. My sibling has been dating someone for 3yrs.. He doesnt laugh anymore, he gets real agro.. But not towards the girl, more towards the family.. How do one help such a changing person? He isnt aloud to have friends of his age hes gf is 5yrs younger and still at school. She cheated on him and he forgave her, yet she still flirts with the guy. None of his mates really get along with her, and she ignores the rest of us. How do Î bring back my brother? coz this definately aint gim....

[Karmallama]

Two options.

1:- Club him over the head and tie him to a chair until he forgets all about her.

2:- Wait it out and trust that he spots it himself. Anything you say against her is likely to galvanise his feelings and turn him against you or the anyone that points the issues out to him. Just be there for him when the arse drops out of the relationship, because he'll need people there then. My brother went through the same kind of thing.

[Janine]

Thanx Karmallama! Lol, uh think Im going with the first option.. Hehe.. Or not. As you know it hurts the family of the person more than they know. Good to know we arent alone, hugz!