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Re: Signs

Postby Kees on Mon Feb 23, 2009 5:04 pm

Janine wrote:So Im wondering what signs you guys give to show a gal you are interested? From both the shy men as those not shy?

Oh, and does a gal that takes the first step a scary thought to you all you mucho males?


Eye contact is the first link.... to be followed up by either a wink or a chat-up line (following FreeHookup's helpful suggestions with the daily matches)... and then you go for the kill... storm up to her and express your explicit interest in shagging her...

FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!!!! What ever happened to boys and girls being PERSONS rather than lust objects of the opposite sex? If you notice someone, just approach them and talk to them...

If I'm interested in someone it is because we have something in common, something to talk about. So...talk... The gall that you are interested in will be able to make up her own mind about pursueing the conversation... And if a gall makes the first approach... great... it means that someone else has noticed you. That should be seen as a compliment... no matter how shy or matcho the dude...

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Re: Signs

Postby Janine on Tue Feb 24, 2009 11:18 am

Ok, haha.. Wasnt at all refering to anything lustful. Just needed a male opinion. Lol.

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Re: Signs

Postby CdaFaith1957 on Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:56 pm

Janine wrote:Ok, haha.. Wasnt at all refering to anything lustful. Just needed a male opinion. Lol.


I read your question and saw nothing lustful about it. It was a good question.

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Re: Signs

Postby Janine on Wed Feb 25, 2009 1:41 pm

Lol, thanx m'am!

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Re: Signs

Postby Kees on Wed Feb 25, 2009 3:49 pm

Hehehe, oops... I guess that I just revealed my true colours.... If I'm interested in a girl... why would I be... :idea:

Ofcourse... nothing lustful...

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Re: Signs

Postby kittykitty31 on Sat Feb 28, 2009 12:02 am

Thanks for the advice :D

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Re: Signs

Postby Janine on Sun Mar 08, 2009 12:32 pm

Ok, so I want to ask anyone who is willing to answer... Why do people let a girl or boy change them so much that they become unrecognisable to their family and friends? Is the liking of one person really worth losing the love of everyone else?

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Re: Signs

Postby Karmallama on Mon Mar 09, 2009 9:15 am

I think it's a slow process and depends more on how much time you spend with the person thats changing you.

Like if I was seeing a lass every other day, and my mates only one or two days a week, then I'd pick up more habits and have more interaction with the girl than I would with the others... then the rest is because you form a routine with that person. A way of getting through the days with as little fuss as possible. Calling at certain times, phrasing things a certain way, doing certain things because you know that person likes it that way.

I don't think it's a conscious choice to change from one way to another, but more of a development, I guess.

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Re: Signs

Postby Laura on Mon Mar 09, 2009 1:17 pm

Oh boy, Thats a good one.

I really think when two people get together and are hitting it off, they spend more time with each other than anyone else.

If that person seems to have alot to offer and there are some things that bother them, you make adjustments. Its not really becoming someone else as much as it is deciding this partner is worth some negotiating of behaviors. Giving up some things that are maybe not so important for you to keep. Or adjusting them, like time with friends gets to be less.

If they inturn negotiate some things for you, its fair. You can not and should not ever alter or negotiate your true values or being for anyone. Anyone that truely loves you would not ask that of you anyway. Nor should you ever take on someone elses life and give up your own.

Make sense?
A true relationship is a blending.

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Re: Signs

Postby Jilly on Tue Mar 10, 2009 3:49 pm

Janine wrote:Ok, so I want to ask anyone who is willing to answer... Why do people let a girl or boy change them so much that they become unrecognisable to their family and friends? Is the liking of one person really worth losing the love of everyone else?



I dont think people change on purpose. I certainly didn't mean to when I was with my ex husband but found out I had, from my friends when we seperated. I changed in the wrong way, no confidnce etc due to trying to make him happy, rather than myself. I was so focussed on being 'the good mother and wife' that I let myself fall without realising. But I did kinda learn from this-when with my next partner, I always made sure I did things for myself, with friends or alone. I was constantly telling myself to remember how I felt with my ex husband, as I never wanted to go back to that again.

Cheesey I know.....but life has to be lived for yourself and your friends and family-men/women can come and go. :cry:

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