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Should I contact him?

Postby Molly 44 days, 6 hours ago

Okay..I just discovered this "Ask a guy" - forum today, and I have a question that I would like to get a few opinions on. Here It goes: Last May I met this guy at a party. He was flirting with me, I liked him, and he got my number. After a while, we started seeing each other - kissing, sleeping together. The problem was, that he allready had a girlfriend. (I know, I'm a bad person.. :cry:) It's important to say, that this guy, is the kind of guy, who is always flirting, and checking out girls-even at times when he has a girlfriend, and that his relationship was going very down hill. He often slept at my place, instead of going home. He has another view at monogamy than most people, including myself. We kept the affair going for 6 months. Then I stopped it. I never expected him to leave his girlfriend, and I didn´t see any future in the whole thing with us. 3 weeks after, he bought me a birthday present, and called on my birthday. We haven´t talked now for over 3 months, but I miss him. After we had ended the whole thing, his girlfriend found out..My question is: Would it be stupid of me to contact him again, even JUST to be friends? Would I make myself look stupid?

What do you think?

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Re: Should I contact him?

Postby EmaD 43 days, 10 hours ago

i think you will really look stupid

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Re: Should I contact him?

Postby Red51 43 days ago

Molly wrote:Okay..I just discovered this "Ask a guy" - forum today.... He was flirting with me.... . he already had a girlfriend... It's important to say, that this guy, is the kind of guy, who is always flirting, and checking out girls-even at times when he has a girlfriend.... He has another view at monogamy than most people, including myself. ... I didn´t see any future in the whole thing... After we had ended the whole thing, his girlfriend found out..My question is: Would it be stupid of me to contact him again, even JUST to be friends? Would I make myself look stupid?

What do you think?


Seems as though you've answered your own question. I made some categories of cheaters in the "Cheaters" post... see if you former guy fits any of them... And good luck!

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Re: Should I contact him?

Postby Phil 41 days, 4 hours ago

It would certainly suite you to contact him. I think you honestly have issues that need to be dealt with. Perhaps therapy. There are other people out there and you are looking for a relationship. You won't get it with him because he will have someone else on the side besides you.

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Re: Should I contact him?

Postby Dimoniblau 40 days, 3 hours ago

If you wanna play with him, contact him. But you must now that you can't be sure to have this guy as your property.

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