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[Mike Martinez]

I have many male friends who won't go down on a girl, and a few female friends who won't go down on guys.
Only, the males love getting it, while the females don't like getting it.

You have 'many' male friends who don't go down on a girl? They aren't telling you the truth. Get your friends alone, take your pants off, and tell em to go to town. You'll see. I ~seriously~ cannot imagine this happening in real life. (of course I don't really expect you to do this, but it would be a great story if you've got the guts!)

And while I have to doubt the girl claim too, maybe if they say they don't like it, it's a question of technique. Not that it's rocket science. Could be self-consciousness, but that is a temporary thing, and they too will fall in line (at least in private).

I used to think that I would never have anal sex either. But this is what people do. As an expression of affection and in the quest to give and receive pleasure, this stuff will eventually performed on AND performed by 'everyone'.

But at least it's good message board fodder.

[fresita]

smelling her scent off of my flavor savor.

hola como tu estas

[Genene]

###rtinez,
This is a true fact that many men will not admite do going down on a girl because they don't want the hassle from their friends, not know that in private they get up 2 the same thing, it still a taboo subject thats why i came on here 2 find out 4 myself.

[Sharon]

"smelling her scent off of my flavor savor."

boy oh boy....I just can't stop laughing

[ultraloveit]

I have many male friends who won't go down on a girl, and a few female friends who won't go down on guys.
Only, the males love getting it, while the females don't like getting it.

You have 'many' male friends who don't go down on a girl? They aren't telling you the truth. Get your friends alone, take your pants off, and tell em to go to town. You'll see. I ~seriously~ cannot imagine this happening in real life. (of course I don't really expect you to do this, but it would be a great story if you've got the guts!)

And while I have to doubt the girl claim too, maybe if they say they don't like it, it's a question of technique. Not that it's rocket science. Could be self-consciousness, but that is a temporary thing, and they too will fall in line (at least in private).

I used to think that I would never have anal sex either. But this is what people do. As an expression of affection and in the quest to give and receive pleasure, this stuff will eventually performed on AND performed by 'everyone'.

But at least it's good message board fodder.

You have a lot of valid points, but some people are too afraid to try things.

I'm sure if I ripped off my pants and said "Eat me!" they'd think I'd be joking, laugh nervously, then walk away. lol. Would be fun to try though =P

[Alan Alpha]

I have many male friends who won't go down on a girl, and a few female friends who won't go down on guys.
Only, the males love getting it, while the females don't like getting it.

You have 'many' male friends who don't go down on a girl? They aren't telling you the truth. Get your friends alone, take your pants off, and tell em to go to town. You'll see. I ~seriously~ cannot imagine this happening in real life. (of course I don't really expect you to do this, but it would be a great story if you've got the guts!)

And while I have to doubt the girl claim too, maybe if they say they don't like it, it's a question of technique. Not that it's rocket science. Could be self-consciousness, but that is a temporary thing, and they too will fall in line (at least in private).

I used to think that I would never have anal sex either. But this is what people do. As an expression of affection and in the quest to give and receive pleasure, this stuff will eventually performed on AND performed by 'everyone'.

But at least it's good message board fodder.

You have a lot of valid points, but some people are too afraid to try things.

I'm sure if I ripped off my pants and said "Eat me!" they'd think I'd be joking, laugh nervously, then walk away. lol. Would be fun to try though =P

if a girl did that to me i would so go for it
aslong as i got it back
hey first time for everything

[Genene]

well i've given oral once but didn't like it and i've had guys ask me and some have looked at me like there's something wrong with me bcause i've said no. i don't understand why.

[Mike Martinez]

This is a general statement and observation...

Men will say something that is anti-male/pro-female, that they don't necessarily believe, in the presence of women. There is always the longshot that he could have sex with one of them, and he doesn't want to ruin his chances. Even in message boards, which baffles my mind. But it has happened on this very thread. I just want to grab them and shake them and say "she's not going to fuck you anyway!". But it wouldn't matter.

Me, I like to debate too much and I'll never fall into this. Plus, "bro's before hoes", as the saying goes.

Listen to this statement very carefully. Other men may claim to disagree, but don't buy it. Here's the truth:

All men expect to give and receive oral sex. They may not say it, and they may not complain to you about it. They might even lie to you about it. But if you don't do it, someone else will, and you will suffer as a result. I'm not saying you should do something you don't want to do, but cause and effect always applies.

And as for Alan Alpha's comment.... from your mouth to god's ears, my man. You are not alone! I'd like to add though, that reciprocation is not always necessary. Sometimes just having the girl in bliss and at my mercy is all the motivation I need.

I'd like to meet a sexually active 30 year old who doesn't give head. Man or woman. See if you can find one of those.

[Eric]

I'll call you a little on this.
I've dated a woman who just didn't like it. I suspect she had some bad experiences, and that put her off. Didn't stop us dating, and having a good time. i didn't pressure or "expect" it, and wasn't dissapointed. Bit, as we got comfortable with each other, she was again willing to explore....no pressure, no stress, and it was...fun. But if she had just said no, I'd have no problem with that either.

[chinaman]

only thing about oral sex is the bloody view i love doing and getting and doing it together but doing it the view is bloody awful lol