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[Dylan]

here's what you do: on a thursday evening (preferably a few days after your last text msg), CALL him (no more texting which has failed you enough) and ask him out for friday. this way even if his day goes bad, he'll at least have something to look forward to at the end of the day. if he says he's busy or something, then take it as a hint as to where you stand with him. DO NOT leave a message if he doesn't answer and leave at least 3 days between calls to avoid seeming desperate or clingy. you should still show up in his missed calls so if he doesn't pick up or get back to you within 2 weeks, then he's officially not interested, or he changed his cell phone # without telling you.

[Mathew]

ok I actually went on a date with this guy I liked date went awesome totally awesome.
Next day i texted him a thanks for coming with me I had a blast, he texted back it was wonderful etc, we both wanted to see eachother again the last text was goodnite beautiful.
Next day I didnt text him, he texted me he had a horrible day. I said sorry etc and hope tomorrow is better for ya wish i could rub ur back or help u sleep but i didnt want to bug u too much, nite nite xoxo.
Late after noon I texted him hope today is better for ya xoxo, he texted been a long day, I texted him later on and said how u doin? no reply.
I am not sure if I should text him I dont want to be all pushy or anything...but this guy is amazing. The chemistry was enough to blow up the whole continent. I havent felt this way since i was in my early twenties. I have butterflys in my belly when ever i think of him...I dont know what to do. I am affraid of being a pushy crazy chase em down biatch. I really want to try to have a relationship with this guy for some reason I think he is like a good choice to try. Since I am picky with guys. i do know him fairly well and hes a laid back kind of guy.

what should i do now.. I dont want to ruin anything...ugh any suggestions or comments would be very helpful thanks guys *hugs

I agree with the guy above me... ask him out. If he still seems distant then behonest with him. Tell him what you think. If he doesn't respond the way that you hope then move on. You have a lot going for you and anyone would be lucky to be with you. Chances are he is feeling the same way and doesn't want to push you either. Even if he doesn't it is best to find out and get it over with early...

Just say what you feel.

For example: "I really enjoyed our date and being with you. I really like you a lot and I am not trying to pressure you. I am simply wondering if you feel the same way, because you seem a bit distant lately. I have always felt that it is best to be upfront with each other, so as to avoid confusion all around."

[~*K0in0philia*~]

ok ..well i did it! And he does like me and asked me out for tonite.. im soo excited I cant wait.. I feel like a kid again lol all dorky and nervous.
thanks everybody! And Matt ur were right!

[Liam]

Ok, I am posting this before reading any of the other replies, so sorry if it is a repeat of what someone else has said. My advice is not complicated at all, but it takes patience on your part. If I were you, I wouldn't text him again untill he texts you. If 3 or more days go by without a text from him, I would text him just to find out why he never got back in touch with you. He may have a good reason, but when you do it, don't do it in a interogation type. Just simply ask him, and explain that you are asking because of the chemistry you thought you had. That's it. you seem like an intelligent woman, with a good head on your shoulders, and you are very pretty. This is not a "come on", I'm saying it simply because it seems it would be his loss if he loses you, not your loss.

[~*K0in0philia*~]

Ok, I am posting this before reading any of the other replies, so sorry if it is a repeat of what someone else has said. My advice is not complicated at all, but it takes patience on your part. If I were you, I wouldn't text him again untill he texts you. If 3 or more days go by without a text from him, I would text him just to find out why he never got back in touch with you. He may have a good reason, but when you do it, don't do it in a interogation type. Just simply ask him, and explain that you are asking because of the chemistry you thought you had. That's it. you seem like an intelligent woman, with a good head on your shoulders, and you are very pretty. This is not a "come on", I'm saying it simply because it seems it would be his loss if he loses you, not your loss.

Aw why thank you for the modest compliment! Im sure this was a good question for everyone in my position. The advice is real. Take care!


And oh yah! I got a date with him tonite..w00t..will be continued