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[Colin]

Don't have sex in first 3 months if possible.

Quoting a number has nothing to do with it. You have to do it when you're ready. It could be right away, or it could be a ways off.
Some people are already emotionally detached long before their relationship ends...

[Jerry w.]

you do what YOU feel is right,it's ur life and no one can tell but ur self,if the person doesnt understand then they arent what you need in ur life! enjoy urself okay,it's alway's ur choice,dont forget that! SMILE'S EVERYONE!

[Jessica]

[ he might write you off because he considers you too easy and he'll think if you're that way with him you might be that way with others and many guys don't like that. ".

Isn't that stupid? HE is being easy too, as much as his partner!!!
WE might not like that either!

[JohnW]

[ he might write you off because he considers you too easy and he'll think if you're that way with him you might be that way with others and many guys don't like that. ".

Isn't that stupid? HE is being easy too, as much as his partner!!!
WE might not like that either!

I agree!

[Ronnie]

There is no hard and fast rule when it comes to when. When is when its right for both of you.

[miss contrary]

Something went wrong cause he stood me up and won't return emails or calls. This is why I have avoided dating. My feelings are hurt and I don't even know if I liked this guy or not. Not fun....not fun at all

[Dayna]

[ he might write you off because he considers you too easy and he'll think if you're that way with him you might be that way with others and many guys don't like that. ".

Isn't that stupid? HE is being easy too, as much as his partner!!!
WE might not like that either!

Hey I don't make the rules ... I am giving my opinion, some guys are funny. I know a few guys that sleep with anything that moves, yet they want to marry a virgin. I don't agree with it but hey it still happens.

[cristofer]

Sex and when to have it is really a personal choice and you should really only have that kind of an intimate contact with someone you feel comfortable enough to be that close to, as far as people go there are so many different types of personality's and such out there that you never really know what you are getting into with someone in a relationship until you have been with them for a very long time because of the masks that we all wear to keep us safe not only from others but ourselves. If your unsure about whether or not to have sex with someone then you are probably not ready to take that step, now on the other hand if you really are just longing for the intimate touch of another human being it is easy enough to disassociate yourself from the meaningful act of making love with someone and turn it into a tawdry act of lustful satisfaction.

[miss contrary]

Well put and good advice.

[Justin Petrick]

I am new to this dating stuff...on line or otherwise....I am curious, when is it appropriate to engage in sex if you are wanting a lasting relationship. Not to offend, but so many guys seem to be ready in the 1st 5 minutes. I just think that giving in too soon is not a good idea. I suspect I am right but know that i am older and out of touch with todays practices. Not even sure if this was asked right.

Depends on how much of a risk your willing to take. In the perfect world a guarantee would be to wait until your married...but there is divorce these days. I would say 3-4 months if you honestly have to have an answer, but it is different for everyone. But if he waits that long I would say he is into you.

Peace.