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[Char]

Anna~ there is flirting and there is flirting. I mean there is being a cheeky bugger and then there is wanting the attentions of another person besides the one your in a relationship with. And you share with these others outside of your relationship~ kinda defeats the point of a relationship don't you think?

Do you want to be in an open relationship? Could that possibly be what he really wants?

Do you really think that sex is the only thing that separates a non-cheater from a cheater?

If I am with a guy and we have agreed to manogomay you can bet I'm be pissed if he was chatting up other women, seeking their attention for self validation and yes, if he had sex, with or without the chatty flirts first for validation. I'd be pissed at him for complicating something so simple~ just say you want an open relationship! I'll make my choice either way then...coward

Ask your self what you want, and if your getting it, and if your going to settle for less if you are "eating food you do not want"

[VENU]

Ok guys help me out....How do you know when a man is "just not that into u"?.......and when they say "i want to take it slow" and "i am not ready for a perminant relationship yet" becuse his last relationships where bad....one day I am the only one and then I dont hear from him for days.....we are both open/honest and talk to each other about seeing others......he says he is crazy about me more than anyone????am I wasting my time?

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[Kay]

GIrl..................Just keep steppin. Stay friends with him if you want or if the friendship is cool but if hes not feelin that way then that lets you know. Point blank! Dont wear your emotions on your sleeve and always keep your options open. Plus U R TOO YOUNG to get strung up too soon. Take it slow and enjoy being young. Theres plenty of men out there and trust me, they aint goin no where. Love yourself. DO YOU!

"When you stand for nothing, you fall for anything"

[Melini]

GIRL FROM WHAT I HAVE READ YOU ARE JUMPING THREW HOOPS FOR A GUY WHO IS JUST USING YOU AS YOUR "YOU'LL DO GIRL".

If a guy ( or girl ) remains active on dating sights after they have found someone, they are always looking to trade in for a different model. If anyone wanted to be together, they would know from the first date I believe. If he has been with you for a while and still not stepping to the plate, girl he is never going too...You should never have to second guess, EVER!

[Crafty]

I say when a guy says "He's just not that into you" means he is not interested. Those things they say to you is just excuses not to hurt your feelings. Read the book and you will learn!