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[Lori]

So I just got a message from some old guy saying that I should get off FreeHookup because I am strange and scaring guys with my 'bull*hit'
I am being completely honest and forthright.
I am really hurt that someone would slam me in a so-called 'flirt'
Is it wrong to be unique? To be slightly different than the masses in that I have a brain and use it?
If I am scaring guys off it's the guys that don't need to be here.
What could I possibly be doing that scares men (I mean what I post and state in my profile)

Fraulien Cindy,

Most people can't handle honesty..plain and simple you are an honest person and even the idiot who bashed you has to respect that..even if he won't admit it. He has bigger problems and I'm glad that you now see that it's HIM not YOU that did something wrong. Besides, I too love German people. I was fortunate enough to have lived in Stuttgart, Germany for 4 years.. I would go back in heart beat but no jobs there either. Hang in there and you WILL find you guy!!
Guten Tag,

Lori

[Lauren89]

So I just got a message from some old guy saying that I should get off FreeHookup because I am strange and scaring guys with my 'bull*hit'
I am being completely honest and forthright.
I am really hurt that someone would slam me in a so-called 'flirt'
Is it wrong to be unique? To be slightly different than the masses in that I have a brain and use it?
If I am scaring guys off it's the guys that don't need to be here.
What could I possibly be doing that scares men (I mean what I post and state in my profile)

You should do what you live i mean everyone is on here for different reasons, and
at the end of the day if you're being yourself then go you, why should you pretend to
be something you're not? and maybe his just scared because he cant actually
be himself?! people are pathetic sometimes, i mean its like a dating site, so
he must have nothing better to do then try and make people feel bad about themselves...
maybe he has own issues? i guess psychology comes into play here:)
And also men are scared of women who can be themselves, they want us to always
agree with them and laugh at not so funny jokes.... maybe he is scared really that you're
happy with who you are;) x

[Crafty]

Hi Cindy,
You are not doing anything wrong! Honesty is beautiful and I wish more men could take the truth about them. I honestly don't care if I am scaring a man. I think most men know they are jerks and cowards, but their ego's take control. SO what if they get hurt about what we women say. I think we have a right to tell them what we think. The thing with men is they are not being honest; they only say things they know we want to hear. Men know how to separate emotions and feeling, we don't and that makes things so much harder. Cindy, you keep doing what you are doing; You are being yourself, which is what they should be. No more lies. Be honest and true to yourself. Don't ever let anyone upset you; YOU GO GIRL!

[Phil]

I tell all. Don't care what people think. I'm sad to say I do have a little German in me. And a few other lands. I am 31 flavors.........I don't care that I'm German.........Please don't hate me, I am only being honest...

[Denise]

Why would you be hurt by what one person said? Chances are that person is more than likely still young, and very inmature. Don't worry about what peope think about you, worry about what you think about yourself because you will get a lot more confidence in yourself that way.

[Dax]

yes you are doing something wrong as i really want you to friend me on dax poole @ book face babe get in contact hun xxx

[Douglas]

Well, the problem with the internet is...well, anyone can join. Including scumbags who's only joy in life is to ruin other people's fun through anonymous avatars. Basically, ignore them, they are idiots who are probably under 18.