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[Crisybelle]

I was married at 18 divorced by 21 and came away with the 2 loves of my life, my children . . . but it seems the only guys I attract are the 40 + or the creeps . . or beaters . . . what do I need to do to attract that really great guy that's good with kids, cute . . . and my age?!

[Alexander]

Have you considered getting involved in something that you take pride in? You might be able to find someone you like who shares your passions if you look in organizations, clubs, athletics, etc.

[Crosseyed luke]

first guys your age dont want a ready made family. 2nd, try a 40 yr old he probably has a good job and all those things you want from life

[Optiron]

Luke has it right. Not a lot of guys that do not have kids of their own your own age are ready to take on a ready to go family that has two kids. When you limit yourself that much you limit your options that much more. Older guys tend to be more stable, set in a good career and ready to take on the responsibilities of a ready made family. Just because a guy is older does not mean he is creepy. Learn to judge people on the merits of who they are not just how old they are or how cute they are. And I am not saying that because I am 38 hoping to get with you cause I am not.

[James]

Kids are a big problem for most guys our age because we don't know how to deal, nor do we want to. I like kids just fine, but I can barely take care of myself... and maybe you don't want him to 'take care' of them at all, but they'll still be around, and honestly I would have to know someone pretty well before their kids could enter into the relationship... what if you get attached to the kids and break up five months later?

Not to mention that I really have no idea how to even DEAL with kids.. I mean it's apparently easy but still..

I could go on for hours about this dating dilemma...

[Shane]

Hell how does a good man attract a young divorced single mom???


Good luck in your quest!!!

[Elma]

Hell how does a good man attract a young divorced single mom???


Good luck in your quest!!!

That can´t be hard if you are ready for the package.
Be you, be honest, be flexible, be understanding
Just use common sense and you will figure it out