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[shay]

Sorry Frank. It's only because me and Boon go back like peanut butter and jelly lol

He's been amusing me way before you came into the forum. But for the record, you're a more sane individual it seems. Boon is a firecracker!

[l3oondocksaints]

I don't know Boon. You have a HUGE advantage on him so don't get too worried

You know what she is talking about when she says my advantage is HUGE.....haha

[shay]

Oh hell

[Griselda]

Just be straight up and tell him ur feeling, cause u never know if hes taking you serious or not

[Bobdion]

frank and shay answer that question very well

[jonnibeau]

Love is a delicate matter. Different people react differently when you throw that word out there. You should be sure that the feeling is mutual, otherwise you'll end up hurt and dissapointed. So ask yourself this question, "When I tell him I love him, will he tell me the same?" And I really have to comment on Joao's response. You didn't answer the girl's question at all, seems to me that you just want to get your opinion out there, which I have also read as response to some one else's question. And I gotta tell you man, you need new material. You're not telling anyone anything they didn't already know.

[DJ Rackley]

How to show the man you love that you love him...

Sounds to me like an open and shut case. But I suppose that there can be a few things that might make this normally smooth topic go awry. So, according to all the strange imaginings bouncing around in my wildly overactive brain, I offer you this humble suggestion on how you might go about it.

If you haven't already told the guy that you love him, that's step #1. It's big and important, and you must do it in all seriousness, allowing no room for joking around or that hi might mistake you as just playing. But you don't want to be all harsh and overbearing either, right? If you and your man have not had this talk about your feelings, then you need to be understanding of where HE is in the relationship. He might care for you a lot (a whole lot) but might not be quite comfortable yet shifting it on over into the "love zone", so if you want him to be able to do just that, you gotta be understanding of that. Now, if you been together for like two years and he's still uncomfortable, then....

But if you've already had the talk and you both know that you love him and he's cool with that, and he's all down with you loving him, then I can think of a few ways you can show how much you love him, but they'll take some effort on your part. So be prepared to roll up your sleeves and get a little dirty (in a good way).

Suggestion numero uno: When he's in a mood to talk about something serious with you, pay attention. Don't just shove it aside like it's not important because most of the time he's quiet. When he actually wants to talk and he's initiated conversation, it's because it's something that he's put some thought into and would like to discuss so it's at least a little bit important to him. Guys don't typically prattle on and on about irrelevant things. I'm not saying that you should engage him with questions to make him continue talking on and on and on, but if he asks you a question, don't just spout out the first thing that pops into your mind. A serious, honest, and thoughtful answer will get you a lot of miles in this area.

Suggestion number two: All guys love attention whether we will admit it or not. Affectionate attention is a whole lot better! Even if we're sitting at our computer, busily filing reports, or doing research for work, or whatever, if you just show up with a cup of our favorite beverage and a little snack, a big tender hug, and a nice warm kiss, even if it's just for a moment or two, we will appreciate the break from the tedium and that you were thoughtful enough to bring us even little gifts like that. I would think that (like me) with most guys it does not take much at all to make them happy.

Suggestion numero tres: This is a big one, and like with suggestion number two, I don't think that most guys will admit it because it might be a matter of pride with them. But I think that preferential treatment is a HUGE deal. We don't mind that you want to spend time with the girlfriends and go shopping and talk on the phone endless hours with all your relatives, but we'd like to know that we are your favorite. That you'd rather spend time with us. That at the drop of a hat, we're the ones that you choose. Even if that means cutting your shopping trip a little bit short and coming home (or meeting us somewhere) or ending your phone call prematurely, really just some sign or indication that we're your favorites goes a long way with us.

Well, there you have it, those are three big ones, and I think they're the important ones. Of course, there are a lot of little things you can do to show your man you love him, but I think that these are three that women might overlook, but that are really important to guys.

[Mysti]

How to show the man you love that you love him...

Sounds to me like an open and shut case. But I suppose that there can be a few things that might make this normally smooth topic go awry. So, according to all the strange imaginings bouncing around in my wildly overactive brain, I offer you this humble suggestion on how you might go about it.

If you haven't already told the guy that you love him, that's step #1. It's big and important, and you must do it in all seriousness, allowing no room for joking around or that hi might mistake you as just playing. But you don't want to be all harsh and overbearing either, right? If you and your man have not had this talk about your feelings, then you need to be understanding of where HE is in the relationship. He might care for you a lot (a whole lot) but might not be quite comfortable yet shifting it on over into the "love zone", so if you want him to be able to do just that, you gotta be understanding of that. Now, if you been together for like two years and he's still uncomfortable, then....

But if you've already had the talk and you both know that you love him and he's cool with that, and he's all down with you loving him, then I can think of a few ways you can show how much you love him, but they'll take some effort on your part. So be prepared to roll up your sleeves and get a little dirty (in a good way).

Suggestion numero uno: When he's in a mood to talk about something serious with you, pay attention. Don't just shove it aside like it's not important because most of the time he's quiet. When he actually wants to talk and he's initiated conversation, it's because it's something that he's put some thought into and would like to discuss so it's at least a little bit important to him. Guys don't typically prattle on and on about irrelevant things. I'm not saying that you should engage him with questions to make him continue talking on and on and on, but if he asks you a question, don't just spout out the first thing that pops into your mind. A serious, honest, and thoughtful answer will get you a lot of miles in this area.

Suggestion number two: All guys love attention whether we will admit it or not. Affectionate attention is a whole lot better! Even if we're sitting at our computer, busily filing reports, or doing research for work, or whatever, if you just show up with a cup of our favorite beverage and a little snack, a big tender hug, and a nice warm kiss, even if it's just for a moment or two, we will appreciate the break from the tedium and that you were thoughtful enough to bring us even little gifts like that. I would think that (like me) with most guys it does not take much at all to make them happy.

Suggestion numero tres: This is a big one, and like with suggestion number two, I don't think that most guys will admit it because it might be a matter of pride with them. But I think that preferential treatment is a HUGE deal. We don't mind that you want to spend time with the girlfriends and go shopping and talk on the phone endless hours with all your relatives, but we'd like to know that we are your favorite. That you'd rather spend time with us. That at the drop of a hat, we're the ones that you choose. Even if that means cutting your shopping trip a little bit short and coming home (or meeting us somewhere) or ending your phone call prematurely, really just some sign or indication that we're your favorites goes a long way with us.

Well, there you have it, those are three big ones, and I think they're the important ones. Of course, there are a lot of little things you can do to show your man you love him, but I think that these are three that women might overlook, but that are really important to guys.

hm............then how come after doing all of that and more for every guy i've ever been serious with they still treat me like shit or leave or cheat..? maybe i'm just attracted to assholes-lol

[DJ Rackley]

Yeah, you gotta keep in mind that there are some guys who are only with women for what they can get out of them, and obviously such advice doesn't always apply to them (usually not more often than so) but for guys who genuinely care about the woman they're with, this should apply.

[Sweetflames]

I Am Very Straight Forward With My Man I Love Always
I Am A Very Sensual Woman To The Man I Love,
I Love Touching My Man I Love 24/7 In A Sweet Sexy Way And To Be Touched Back To..
I Always Kiss Him And Let Him Know That I Love Him So Much 24/7..
I Love Wring Love-Letter To The Man I Love Every Day And Tilling Him That I Love You 24/7...
I Always Call Him 24/7 On The Phone Or Send A Texs Messages And
Tilling Him That I Love You And I Miss You ...
And When My Man Is Not Felling Will, I Always Make You Home Made Soup"s And
I Make You A Cup's Of Green Tea's Or Make You A Cup's Of Hot Cocoa With Marshmalow,
I Would Run A Sweet Bath For My Man And Give You A Sweet Back Rub..
And Cuddly Together In Bed.. And So Much More!!!!!!!!
By Sweetflames...
To Day Is Jan 24,2009....
The Time Is 9:35 Pm..