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[.Jade.]

how do i know if my bf is cheating on me?
its been 6 months and he has just found out that im pregnant with his child,,
and i hope he isnt cheating on me or anything like that...
wat are the signs can someone please tell me??

[Bonzai]

You can ask him. Your get some one to follow him around . You mainly just have to watch for signs if he is cheating on you. And congragulations.

[JohnW]

You can ask him. Your get some one to follow him around . You mainly just have to watch for signs if he is cheating on you. And congragulations.

I agree but to have someone following him around can be a bit dangerous cuz if he finds out he'll prolly think she doesn't trust him and could complicate things.

Jade I'm sorry I can't do more to help you out on this but I have never cheated or been cheated on so I lack that experience (thank god) all I can say is to "keep your ear to the ground" and look for signs of lying and quick changes of subject when you ask him where he's been and things like that. Hope he is a good guy and that you'll have a long and happy life with your coming baby, good luck and congratulations to you!

[Paladin]

You dont know and will never know untill it happens.

Be careful please it's a bit late I know. Make sure you are dealing with a man not a boy.

Has he got any other GF's?

Does he go out with no explanation?

Is he short with you and abrupt with words?

these can also be signs of drug use and yes he can be cheating on you with drugs.

A man would devote his time and energy to preparing for the child and looking after his woman.

Message me if you would like a chat.

[Hungry Lion]

Do he work away from home or late a lot ?

Did he pretend to go to friend house to watch basketball (check fixture online)

[Sparkles]

Why the question? If you suspect he's cheating you must have some proof...right?
If it's just a hunch, let it go until you're sure.
Sometimes when you're pregnant your mind can play tricks on you.
If you have proof ask him straight out and go from there.
Good luck anyway.

Sparkles.

[Chris]

My last girl friend cheated on me, so I think that I can answer this one...

First off, she started becoming more and more distant. She didn't want to talk or come over as much as before. I caught her in lies (she was supposed to be working over time, but wasn't at work, but forgot to tell me). I broke my ankle helping her move, yet, she wasn't at hospital during my surgery or home to help me the first couple of days. She didn't want my mother to take her to get her car out of the shop; although, we were only 2 miles away from both her house and the shop, while I was at a Dr. appointment following breaking my ankle. This all happened around Christmas time and she went to visit her family in another state. During this time she wouldn't answer text or phone calls and when she finally did answer she would claim to not have service. While she was in Florida during Christmas, I finally just flat out asked her if there was someone else. She lied of course and told me no. She came home and we did our Christmas thing. The next day she came over and said we needed to talk. She began to cry and I finally dragged it out of her that she wanted to break up. Once again I asked if there were anyone else and she stated that she would never cheat on me. We break up and several weeks later (I am out of work w/ broken ankle), I find out that she has been seeing a co-worker of ours for over a month when we broke up. At this point all the lies began to fall into place...

Moral of my story: if you have doubts or suspicions, there are good reasons for that. Look him straight in the eye and ask... you will know in your gut if he is truthful.

Btw: I had specifically asked her about him when I caught them sitting "to close" together at a shift change. She claimed that they had been watching something on his laptop...

[.Jade.]

thanks everyone that helped me out alot...now i know what to look out for and that

[Gridley]

When he comes home late, pull his pants down and smell his thing, If it smells like pus-y hes cheating!

[Falcor]

When he comes home late, pull his pants down and smell his thing, If it smells like pus-y hes cheating!

Only Effective if he didnt shower but then he would prob smell of soap