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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
Too true! I know a girl around your age who was pregnant and she was always thinking these scenarios up and thinking that her loved one was cheating on her.
Isn't it like, the hormones changing and things happening in the brain that cause this sort of hassle?
Anyway, best of luck with it. Try not to think too much into it.
Isn't it like, the hormones changing and things happening in the brain that cause this sort of hassle?
Anyway, best of luck with it. Try not to think too much into it.
Missparkles wrote:Why the question? If you suspect he's cheating you must have some proof...right?
If it's just a hunch, let it go until you're sure.
Sometimes when you're pregnant your mind can play tricks on you.
If you have proof ask him straight out and go from there.
Good luck anyway.
Sparkles.
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Lukey - Posts: 1
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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
Not meaning to offend but your asking if your boyfriend is cheating on you on a dating sight?
Usually there are very strong indications about whether or not your being cheated on, short fuse, disassociation from the norm, easily caught lies, but for what its worth if you look hard enough, you are going to find what you think you want to know whether it exists or not so don't look to hard for it, and if you found out he was cheating on you would you really leave him over it? and if not then is all the stress of finding it out worth the time and energy you put into it, wouldn't you be happier just not knowing?
Usually there are very strong indications about whether or not your being cheated on, short fuse, disassociation from the norm, easily caught lies, but for what its worth if you look hard enough, you are going to find what you think you want to know whether it exists or not so don't look to hard for it, and if you found out he was cheating on you would you really leave him over it? and if not then is all the stress of finding it out worth the time and energy you put into it, wouldn't you be happier just not knowing?
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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
.Jade. wrote:how do i know if my bf is cheating on me?
its been 6 months and he has just found out that im pregnant with his child,,
and i hope he isnt cheating on me or anything like that...
wat are the signs can someone please tell me??
if he didn't want to make luv after three days from making luv with u that mean he is cheating u unles he use the viagra there is no way
and there is another way it depend to the how much he com if its so lettel then he is cheating
gooooood luck
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did_u_smile_2dy - Posts: 10
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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
.Jade. wrote:how do i know if my bf is cheating on me?
its been 6 months and he has just found out that im pregnant with his child,,
and i hope he isnt cheating on me or anything like that...
wat are the signs can someone please tell me??
When things don't make sense. Contradictions, nervousness, changes in behavior or characteristics.......or just being told that you got a woman pregnant.
Peace.
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Justin Petrick - Posts: 156
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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
Depends on how long you have been with him as well, often when uve been together with someone 4 a while u can start 2 pick up on what they do/act or say when they lie. Ask him what hes done 2day or how work was etc, see if he gives off the bullshit. Chances r if ur gut feeling says he mite b cheating, then u could b rite. Nobody is a perfect liar or a good actor.
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Ronnoc - Posts: 1
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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
I'll suggest 2 hints- both based on the point that everyone has a concience...I've seen both, and experienced one (they apply for bot men and women!!)
1- If he still loves you, but can't keep his junk in his pants.
He will be very suspect that you are having an affair. he will hate you having male friends, will be contacting you regularly through the day (keeping tabs on your movements), he will always want to know what you've been up to. The reason? He doesn't want to loose you, but he knows how affairs work. His guilt of his own actions are projected onto you. What he knows you should fear, is just what he fears in you.
2- If he no longer loves you.
He shows no interest in your activities? You talk of speaking to others, and he just doesn't acknowledge, or is in no way fussed about your activities. Like if you said you were having an affair, he would just shrug his shoulders..
The reason? He almost wants you to have an affair. Should it be that you cheat on him, it removes his guilt for doing that to you. It makes his actions acceptable in his mind. Inside he no longer feels like an A-hole hurting someone who loves him, because you did the same, not caring for his feelings....
Hiding the sex is the easy bit...living with the guilt is the thing that brings it undone
1- If he still loves you, but can't keep his junk in his pants.
He will be very suspect that you are having an affair. he will hate you having male friends, will be contacting you regularly through the day (keeping tabs on your movements), he will always want to know what you've been up to. The reason? He doesn't want to loose you, but he knows how affairs work. His guilt of his own actions are projected onto you. What he knows you should fear, is just what he fears in you.
2- If he no longer loves you.
He shows no interest in your activities? You talk of speaking to others, and he just doesn't acknowledge, or is in no way fussed about your activities. Like if you said you were having an affair, he would just shrug his shoulders..
The reason? He almost wants you to have an affair. Should it be that you cheat on him, it removes his guilt for doing that to you. It makes his actions acceptable in his mind. Inside he no longer feels like an A-hole hurting someone who loves him, because you did the same, not caring for his feelings....
Hiding the sex is the easy bit...living with the guilt is the thing that brings it undone
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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
Hey ok trust me when i say this cause what i am about to tell you is from expericence i have been cheated on before there are alot of signs that he could be cheatin on you
1. He acts strange
2. He spends less time with you.
3. You dont see or talk to him in days
### comes in late at night
Ways to know if he is cheatin is:
1. Check his phone and see who he is talkin to
###tch him very closely and the way he acts around you
3. If he tells you where hes going and you call him listen in the background for a womans voice
Oh and congrats on your soon to be bundle of joy do you know what your havin yet jw
1. He acts strange
2. He spends less time with you.
3. You dont see or talk to him in days
### comes in late at night
Ways to know if he is cheatin is:
1. Check his phone and see who he is talkin to
###tch him very closely and the way he acts around you
3. If he tells you where hes going and you call him listen in the background for a womans voice
Oh and congrats on your soon to be bundle of joy do you know what your havin yet jw
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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
.Jade. wrote:how do i know if my bf is cheating on me?
its been 6 months and he has just found out that im pregnant with his child,,
and i hope he isnt cheating on me or anything like that...
wat are the signs can someone please tell me??
Folks ..#1-This thread is over a month old.
# 2 . Jade, if you are still checking on this.. Here is a good hint.. If he has an active profile on a dating web site, it may be a sign that he is willing to cheat on you.
Oh wait! Its you that has the profile!

Please explain to us for the sake of sanity..... . If you have a boyfriend and you are pregnant with his baby and you are worried about him cheating on you to the point that you have people suggesting borderline psychotic jealousy moves like "check his phone" ... Why do you have a profile here on a dating site where your private email is posted for the world to see? I am having a difficult time making heads or tails of this.
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Louie - Posts: 873
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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
I was going to try to write something insightful to this thread, but I think Louie has the grand-daddy of all answers right there.
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mike.d.martinez - Posts: 148
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Re: how do i know if my bf is cheating on me??
If he is not ever on time with you then his mind (and more) is on someone else
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