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[Kelly]

We don't share our personal stories, ask after each others day nothing. I am happy until the next time I need him.
Sometimes he acts possessive like showing up at my job for no reason other than "he wanted to see me" and other times it's as if I don't exist on the same planet as I am totally ignored. I have asked and he hasn't responded so maybe you can clue me in as to what the HELL he wants from me?

[Optiron]

Easy answer. He wants more. Easy fix...get a new sefre. Make sure you lay down the rules and enjoy till it goes bad then get a new one again. That is the good thing about sefre's.

[Crosseyed luke]

your just a play thing he dont care untill he thinks his piece of ass is going some were else, start to treat him like shit and see if he runs or starts to kiss your ass

[Elma]

I can understand that you are confused, i would be.
To be honest i don´t think i would be able to be in a relationship like that.
You could sit down with him, even give him some alternatives but i would be careful with that tho.
I hope you two can solve this, good luck

[NBMaritimer]

One answer..

Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars.

[Shane]

another answer

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[Jeremy]

your just a play thing he dont care untill he thinks his piece of ass is going some were else, start to treat him like shit and see if he runs or starts to kiss your ass

In a less grotesque way to put it, basically he doesn't try when it comes to the relationship, until he feels you're losing interest. He wants to keep you distant, so if something better comes along, it will be easy to detatch.
I would hope this isn't the case. But you may be a "last resort" girlfriend. You're a planted seed right now. As long as you're not growing, only he knows where you are.. until he needs what you can offer, then he'll let you grow..

understand?

[Colin]

Get out... immediately!

If you're not happy then you need to get out of that relationship. Having a discussion might help in the short term, but in the long term you'll see the same behavior again.

[Jeremy]

Colin's got the right Idea.. I just got divorced from a 5 year marriage, we tried to work on these problems.. talking helped.. but it only drew out 3 years of what we knew was inevitable..
and we had a kid in that time..

it wasn't my idea.. trust me.

get out before you guys own a car or something.. no debt.. RUN

[Colin]

Especially if you're just dating you just can't advance the relationship to marriage if you have problems.

If you have to fix a relationship (other than simple misunderstandings) then you shouldn't get married. If your relationship is on the brink then let it die, you'll be better off.