Re: Help Needed: What Sould I Do??
If you have your doubts about Jamie forget about him. Take him completely out of the picture. Let him know you don't think it will work right now.
As for Matt. If he has another love interest he should not be flirting with you. There is such a thing as a transition person. That is when someone leaves a relationship they seek another partner just to transition into being alone, or being available again. He may subconsiously be setting that up.
You need to ask yourself if you really want to be with a guy that will have you as a girlfriend and flirt secretly with others. If he is doing it to her....
He may not be such a great catch after all.
If you still want him, I would tell him the next time he flirts with you that as soon as he end this other relationship to look you up. But you better be darn sure he truely is flirting with you. If he is just being overly friendly and you say that to him, he may feel compelled to talk to his girlfriend about it. Not only will you feel silly if he is not flirting but you would have opened a "family size can of whop ars" on yourself.
Be cautious with love triangles!