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[♦ Lil Miss Lovely ♦]

I recently dated this guy and he started off saying that he's a good guy/gentleman ready for a good girl, because he's been hurt in the past. I suppose I'm under that category of a 'good girl' who is loyal, etc. But when it got past a certain amount of dates, he strayed away and went back towards his cheating/claimed to have changed ex. Why do guys say they want to start something new and something potentially better, yet is blind enough to give an ex 4 chances? lol I'm guessing he's not worth it??

[Phil]

I call it screwed up. Maybe he loves her for a bit then gets sick of her. Perhaps it's just great sex. If he said he wants a good girl and cheats on you it was a line he gave you and he is full of shit...sorry.

[Red51]

I think there's a little more to it than Phil says. Lil Miss, did he actually cheat, or did he tell you upfront and end it with honor before going back to his ex? If so, he's probably a good man. If not, he's a jerk.

I also disagree also about the great sex part, Phil; there's always more to it than that. Like memories of good times. The ex has something Lil Miss Lovely doesn't: a longer history with this man.

Lil Miss, this guy isn't necessarily a bad man; he is probably confused and is likely going down a blind alley. Cheaters find it quite hard to change--they have lost that thing called integrity. His ex's cheating destroyed her integrity. If I were you, I'd put him in your past as a sad interlude where you learned a lesson that not all relationships--even ones that looked promising--work out, and start fresh. You deserve it.

[Phil]

I know guys who can't control themselves. I can, So what I said was true in my eyes...

[Robby]

I recently dated this guy and he started off saying that he's a good guy/gentleman ready for a good girl, because he's been hurt in the past. I suppose I'm under that category of a 'good girl' who is loyal, etc. But when it got past a certain amount of dates, he strayed away and went back towards his cheating/claimed to have changed ex. Why do guys say they want to start something new and something potentially better, yet is blind enough to give an ex 4 chances? lol I'm guessing he's not worth it??

Because.... He's.......... An idiot........... Duhh