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[Leeza]

Y dont guys just be straight forward when it comes to telling a girl they dont like them instead ahh just beating around the bush all the time??

[shay]

Perhaps he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Or maybe he enjoys keeping you on your toes so he can feel in control.

[Abrar]

May be he don't want curse frm a women:D.

[Leeza]

Yea mayb..but its kinda annoying at tymes..
coz you du everifing for them thinking there will be a chance for you and that guy..not knowing that hes only jus messing with you rmind..

[shay]

Keyword: assuming.

[Bobdion]

i call that experience

[Tyler]

Lots of guys keep their metaphorical balls in a jar somewhere, long forgotten about. It's the same reason guys won't step in for strangers getting beat up, or return that wallet with all the money in it, or tell their boss he's being an idiot. Honesty is a hard trait to find, and besides that, sometimes they just don't know. Rather than go forward, and possibly make a mistake, they'd rather wait and make sure, or just not deal with a problem. Being rational has its place, and sometimes its better to shut your yap and not screw things up (like getting fired, but that never stopped me) but most people seem to assume its better to have something and let it drift away, than to admit that they don't want it and lose that potential asset. People (guys) like options. There's a list, you're on it, you're an option, get used to it, people think that way. You could always offer an ultimatum, find out, people generally should be dealt with more carefully, but if it's really frustrating you... screw it, look for someone more straight forward. It's better to go for the unknown potential, and possibly be strong and single, than to be dicked around by someone who's not worth the time. It all depends on the circumstances, these questions are all so wide-open, with no details, the answers are so diverse. >.