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[Morning]

Do guys hate playing the guessing game as much as I do? You know, where your partner doesn't give you the full, straight out answer but kinda skirts around it. Just giving you subtle hints and clues. It drives me nuts! I've heard that guys hate it too but I've met guys that do it more than girls do!

[Showman]

Do guys hate playing the guessing game as much as I do? You know, where your partner doesn't give you the full, straight out answer but kinda skirts around it. Just giving you subtle hints and clues. It drives me nuts! I've heard that guys hate it too but I've met guys that do it more than girls do!

Guys go thru that all the time. Only you girls do not "skirt" around the issue, you chose not to respond at all.

[Karmallama]

Do guys hate playing the guessing game as much as I do? You know, where your partner doesn't give you the full, straight out answer but kinda skirts around it. Just giving you subtle hints and clues. It drives me nuts!

Morning; You're awesome. I WISH people would stop with the crazy 'Guess what I want' business. It kills me. I've never been great with subtleties, so if someone says they don't want something, I don't do/get it. Call me simple (most people do ) but if I like something, I say. If I don't, I say. If it doesn't bother me, I say. It makes life so much easier when you say what you mean. If only the women I'd met would have done the same thing...

[bobby]

Do guys hate playing the guessing game as much as I do? You know, where your partner doesn't give you the full, straight out answer but kinda skirts around it. Just giving you subtle hints and clues. It drives me nuts! I've heard that guys hate it too but I've met guys that do it more than girls do!

girl, i truly admire this quality-straightforwardness. I have nuts in the past guessing wht is actually meant by the statement. Girl u must be out of this world as this quality is quite rare

[Kees]

My crystal bowl ceased working a long time ago...

[Geraldine]

Hey Morning

I totally get what you are saying, if only people could be upfront and honest, it would save alot of our time and feelings. I don't believe in skirting around a issue at all, rather say something upfront, then both parties know where they stand.

Have found tho that many people can't handle my honesty. My attitude is tough! walk away then. A spade is a spade is a a spade.....

Keep on being open and honest, one day you will find someone that only wants it that way

[Char]

skirting is a key player tactic~ in this instance it is an attempt to control another

the nice guys tend to be straight-forward, its the needy players I find being evasive

by not taking responsibility for what they really want, You, the one trying "to figure out what they want" get to be the scapegoat when you get it wrong.

can't give me a straight answer~ then you get nothing

[APCountryCovers]

Early on the guessing game is fine... It's all part of the game... The thrill of the chase!!

But...

If you're in a relationship and it's deep and you're both emotionally connected then you "MUST" talk to each other straight, no matter how painful that straight talk can be...

Good communication is so vitally important...

It just all depends on which stage your both at... I.E. you wouldn't tell someone you just met and had a few light hearted dates, that you're madly in love with them unless you want them to run a mile...

Use your gut instinct it will never let you down