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[Scott]

thats a BIG NO not on the first date if he gets it the first time what else is there....

ok. so you give it up on the third date. "then what else is there" after that? if he likes you, he likes you. weather you give it up in a day or a month. if all he wants is your body, then him waiting a little longer to get it isn't going to change what he's interested in.
my advice is to be more selective with who you go on a date with. instead of going on a date with someone before you even know him or even if he truely likes you for who you are, get to know the guy through just casually hanging out in groups. then, if he's someone that you're interested in and your comfortable he's interested in you, then go for it. holding part of yourself back is about is stupid. so are you going to refuse to cook dinner when you get married until after the third year? that way you can figure out if he's going to divorce you or not. get a grip people.

[Tere]

First date sex is a no
If a girl is easy what's the point. Kinda makes me lose interest and makes her less valuable by how she doesn't value herself enough to learn more about you before committing to sex.
(That doesn't necessarily apply to every situation though)

Mart: i like ur answer..hmmm....

[BOWDY]

I personally think, that it's ok!! But it also depends on the person, if the date is good, or great? Then why not? If you feel in your heart that it is right, then you should do what you feel is best for you!!!!

[The Other Ian]

Sex should first and foremost be fun and consentual. I dont thin it matters if its a first or the hundredth date.

If he/she doesnt like you then the sex act wont keep you together no matter when it occurs. Of course men are more likely in general to simply want a notch on their bedpost but there are also some women who just want a night of fun. So everyone has to bear in mind the possibility that it may just turn into a one night stand. If you can wake up the next day and not regret it then just do what feels good for you.

[Tina]

NO!!! , not one the first date. are you stupid or what?? When they find out that the milk is free then why buy the whole cow ?? I learned this a long time ago.

[Richard]

NO!!! , not one the first date. are you stupid or what?? When they find out that the milk is free then why buy the whole cow ?? I learned this a long time ago.

If he just wants sex then he just wants sex. Lots of men will lead girls on to thinking a relationship will happen and will wait quite a while just for the sex then still dump the girl. So in a way its best to get it out the way earlier and u might save yourself time and hassle.

[ZeroZero]

NO sex on first date. I'm ok with having casual sex, but if you're looking for relationship - never. Beeing comfy etc. with a man? so what? unless you gonna die in 24 hours, what's the rush? AND there's something like aftershock - second date is in my view more important than first, coz more things can show and get complicated.

and from my (and my MALE friends views) - we like to conquer, but deep inside we think that you're ahem... "easy" if we had sex on first date.

yes, i'm working on my "local bastard" title

[latisia]

No sex on the first date. Hey I have got high standards. Guys have to get to know me a bit better before I would put out.

[y bird]

Agree with the others who say not on the first date. I respect myself too much to do that but also having been in loving relationships previously for me there is a huge difference in just doing the physical act and making love. Thats something that takes time to happen, so I'd rather wait until its there. For me casual sex is like fast food- ultimately unsatisfying!!

[Rick.Wright]

end of the day it might be the thing to do, other times it is a nono. It all depends on the circumstances. Sometimes it's the thing to proceed to, other times no chance.