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[Leona]

Whats happening with men? It seems to be an impossible task to meet a man who's not a game player. Now i'm not some man hating feminist far from it i'm just so sick of meeting men who are only after one thing and stringing you along to get it .
I have previously had a 5 year relationship which sadly didn't work out as we were very young and grew apart, and now i seem to be stuck in a loop of meeting guys who start out as nice and it goes well, then all of a sudden they're "not that into it anymore" or they just disappear of the face of the Earth coincidentally just at the point where i'm starting to really like them and i end up getting hurt. If a guy is just looking for fun why not make that clear in the first place? Now i'm not silly and i know relationships take time and i never put pressure on guys. I'm a nice girl who's friendly and fun, I have a fairly good job, i can look after myself and i'm not the type of girl who needs grand material gestures i just want someone who cares and genuinely want to be with me without all this 'I have to wait 5 days before i text her back so i don't look too keen' nonsense. Do men find that unattractive? it always seems to be the high maintainence girls who get the guys. Is treat them mean keep them keen really the way to go guys?
Any comments or feedback would be great, thanks for taking the time to read this.

[John]

We not all like it. I what fun then see if turns into relationship but not after one thing that waits to in relationship when time right thats my thinking always. You get that on here, people start talk and go away. My friend aways says it happens, as she got it a few times men whating one thing then not interested or go when sick of waiting.

[roadrunner]

i could say the same about women
ive only come accross women cheating on theyr boyfriends for what ever reasons, has fun as it is, its totally wrong and they dont get away with it
im the type of guy that wants be in a relationship and knows i wouldnt mess a lady around for just some cheap meaningless thills and yet i cant find a decent lady

i guess women just go for the wrong type of guys all the time then gurn there is no1 decent men when theyr really is, theyr just lookin in the wrong place

[John]

NO not all women or men out there like it. But there are a few Men and women who hump and damp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[David]

feel sorry for you, sounds like you've met a couple of guys who haven't made themselves clear very well for whatever reason. plenty of decent guys out there though! we arent all like that....well i wouldnt think i was anyway!!

personally i always make myself quite clear about what i'm looking for on the first date

[Daniel]

Its hard to give an answer cos everyone is different... but me personally if im dating a girl i wana get to know them and if they ask what im after I basically say im trying to get to know people meet new people and see how it goes... but dont want to particually rush into a relationship... see how it goes, if it feels right and everything is going well then it could well turn into a relationship, just take it 1 step at a time.

[Phil]

If I like someone I tell them and I would expect the same. Don't play games. A little pressure isn't bad but don't freak out. That's just me. If I'm looking for sex. I'll say, "I'm mainly here for sex, but if we click we can be friends or have a serious relationship." If that is what I'm looking for. It might sound bad but it works for me.