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Re: Cyber Dating

Postby Angela 79 days, 1 hour ago

It's a tactic he is using to get you on his side and feel sorry for him - the no talking and then getting angry when you ask if he wants to break up. It's what abusive people do to keep relationships going - hurt and apologise, hurt and apologise. He is playing you - walk away.

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Re: Cyber Dating

Postby Del 73 days ago

It can be real, been there and done it, for 3 years, and we never actually got to meet (long story) she even insisted on sending me 750 euros for my phone bill one time (no i don't come from Nigeria :mrgreen:and no i didn't ask for it) in fact i said no and she sent it anyway.
But it didn't work out either, so as others are saying be very wary, but don't just discard it either, but definately be careful.

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Re: Cyber Dating

Postby Mark 69 days, 19 hours ago

xoxSkitZxox wrote:Ok Can a guy actualy fall in love with a girl he met only on line and not in person? I mean chatting online and on the phone can tell you alot about someone but is it really enough? This guy I been talking to says he is in love with me and wants me to marry him, but we have never met in person. I do have feelings for him, strong ones. But how do I tell if he is for real. I mean the guy asked me to marry him, then suddenly became unavailible to talk or even answer text. But when I do get ahold of him he tells me everything is good, nothing has changed and he still loves me. WTF?


He's married with children and just wants a quickie. Run Awayyyyy !!!!

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Re: Cyber Dating

Postby Blessed 19 days, 15 hours ago

Girl, think long and hard about what you are saying...... listen to yourself - you have definite misgivings about this guy or you wouldn't be asking. he could be many things - but honest doesn't really sound like one of them. could be married, criminal, abusive, etc. Do some research, be wise and definitely be safe.

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Re: Cyber Dating

Postby Shane 19 days, 14 hours ago

Angela wrote:It's a tactic he is using to get you on his side and feel sorry for him - the no talking and then getting angry when you ask if he wants to break up. It's what abusive people do to keep relationships going - hurt and apologise, hurt and apologise. He is playing you - walk away.


ohhh i like this one she has lived :lol::lol::lol::lol:

seriously just be really careful out there is easy to say what you want when not face to face hard to read people that way. making any meeting really casual and public read his body language and if you feel even a little bit creeped out, run like the wind. apart from that good luck :D:D

:twisted::twisted:

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Re: Cyber Dating

Postby Elma 19 days, 8 hours ago

It is possible to form feelings for someone online..
Short vertion of my story
He was charming, flirting, every time he signed in on ### he would contact me instantly, we would talk for hours, he would make me feel good about myself.
Even though all we had was and ever would be a friendship it all made me confused and knowing it´s so easy to pretend you are someone you are not online made me doubt because all he showed me was "i´m perfect, nothing bothers me...." We never met and for me, i need to meet people and see how it is to be around them, i need to sense vibes they give, for me to trust perfectly.
Then when time passed it got more difficult to talk to him, he responded more slowly and seemed distant.
That made me suspicious so i asked questions witch made him rub it in my face that i didn´t belive anything he says and so on.....
Today we don´t talk anymore.

If he is all of a sudden to busy for you then thats a good sign he is losing interest.
And belive me if he were as interested as he says he is he wouldn´t let two hours stop him from meeting you at least. Action speaks louder than words.

You deserve someone that is willing to show you how much he wants to be with you, how much you mean to him...etc.

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