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[Morning]

Hi everyone

When I was in America, I made a lot of random friends but one topic always was brought up among the 'guy group.' American men's fascination with asian women. What is with that? Is it because the women look a little different? Is is the eyes? Or possibly the old-way custom that's pretty much still in effect?

[Isak]

I'm fascinated by Asian women, and find myself attracted to them pretty often, though I'm Swedish and not American..

I think there's a number of explanations, and the answer is probably a combination.

First of all novel or exotic physical features will draw attention in any country, but so does a hotdog in your nose so that's just part of the explanation. The kind of scenario where you have "a thing" for it takes something more, but attention of any kind makes way for positive or negative reflection.. more attention = more reflection of both kinds.

The girly femininity of Asian girls is also a difference from the average caucasian, with the light voice and general tenderness.. Femininity in different forms is something I find attractive, and of course my reproduction-devil is telling me that a young female is well suited for sticking reproductive organs in.

It also seems Asians who are brought up in an Asian culture are strongly shaped by the patriarchy-ish culture.. or at least what seems to be a higher contrast in the roles of men vs women. I think this submissive identity is something which is often related to subconsciously or not with Asian women, and even though I'm not the very dominant kind I find this attractive. It's not that I don't like to be argued with, it's more like it boosts my man-ego in a good way. Giving and being kind is more satisfying when it's not asked for or expected.

I bet there's also a lot of less politically correct reasons produced by the pornographic community.

[Karmallama]

For me, it'd be the exotic appearance. It's always sexy to have something away from the norm... different to everyone else around you. for example, If I was in a room full of blondes, I'd go for the one brunette.

Asian ladies are typically very petite, which some guys are attracted to because they feel bigger and more manly. Like they need protecting and providing for and all those base instincts about the man being the hunter gatherer.

[Ross Jackson]

and asian womens vaginas tend to be tighter due to the whole petite thing. so a normal penis is actually quite big for them, asian women like white and black guys because of that reason too..as the average asian penis is actually smaller than the average white mans penis... just an FYI.

[Jenny]

Not entirely true.. there are Asian ladies that are bigger size too.. They are looking at Caucasian guys bcoz of the general Asian guys like really -slim stick girls- so it as minimize their chance looking for boyfriend.
I must agree with the Isak (the Swedish guys), generally the Asian girls was raised by cultural to be gentle and conservative about sexual desire and so on...