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Are you serious?
I've just done a search for guys within a 10km radius to me with a 6 year age span and it brought up about 200 potentials. Out of that 200 there was about 15 or so that I liked the look of so I checked their date cards. Out of that 15 or so NONE of them had any info in their story that would tell me anything about them! Are you guys serious about finding a partner? What is your motive for being here?
This is for guys with no info in their story and if they haven't bothered doing that I'm pretty sure I won't get any explanations here either but worth a try..
This is for guys with no info in their story and if they haven't bothered doing that I'm pretty sure I won't get any explanations here either but worth a try..

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Jessie - Posts: 203
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Re: Are you serious?
Obviously they not into sharing or too shy to reveal their thoughts.
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latisia - Posts: 104
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i take it i wasnt one of the 15 lol maybe your looking for the wrong kind of guy? its funny you ask if us guys are serious but i have sent hundreds of messages to ladies and had about 3 replies lol
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ssheppard - Posts: 1
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ssheppard wrote:i take it i wasnt one of the 15 lol maybe your looking for the wrong kind of guy? its funny you ask if us guys are serious but i have sent hundreds of messages to ladies and had about 3 replies lol
Try putting a picture up!

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Jessie - Posts: 203
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This is the type of mentality kicking about on here. Such a charmer! Just received after my last post!!!
Chris26 said
Thought I would send you a message just because I see your moaning messages show up on the Home page.
I see you are always moaning about the men that send you messages and you obviously think highly of yourself.
You are 30 single/ never married/no children you are not exactly skinny and you are 5'5. To put it simply you are not stunning and I think you need to take your head out your arse because frankly you should feel lucky you get messages off the weirdos. 1 minute ago
Chris26 said
Thought I would send you a message just because I see your moaning messages show up on the Home page.
I see you are always moaning about the men that send you messages and you obviously think highly of yourself.
You are 30 single/ never married/no children you are not exactly skinny and you are 5'5. To put it simply you are not stunning and I think you need to take your head out your arse because frankly you should feel lucky you get messages off the weirdos. 1 minute ago
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Jessie - Posts: 203
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Re: Are you serious?
Jessie wrote:I've just done a search for guys within a 10km radius to me with a 6 year age span and it brought up about 200 potentials. Out of that 200 there was about 15 or so that I liked the look of so I checked their date cards. Out of that 15 or so NONE of them had any info in their story that would tell me anything about them! Are you guys serious about finding a partner? What is your motive for being here?
This is for guys with no info in their story and if they haven't bothered doing that I'm pretty sure I won't get any explanations here either but worth a try..![]()
we save our info/story for those ones that we also feel they could b a potential partner. we all not into broadcasting our lives n yeah we r serious but not desperately in need 4 a partner or a casual friend, a friendship might do it, I speak 4 myself n surely on behalf of some others.
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Jeremias - Posts: 3
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Re: Are you serious?
I think people who don't put any effort in at all really aren't serious, no.

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AmeriDutch - Posts: 329
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Jeremias wrote:Jessie wrote:I've just done a search for guys within a 10km radius to me with a 6 year age span and it brought up about 200 potentials. Out of that 200 there was about 15 or so that I liked the look of so I checked their date cards. Out of that 15 or so NONE of them had any info in their story that would tell me anything about them! Are you guys serious about finding a partner? What is your motive for being here?
This is for guys with no info in their story and if they haven't bothered doing that I'm pretty sure I won't get any explanations here either but worth a try..![]()
we save our info/story for those ones that we also feel they could b a potential partner. we all not into broadcasting our lives n yeah we r serious but not desperately in need 4 a partner or a casual friend, a friendship might do it, I speak 4 myself n surely on behalf of some others.
Fair call Jeremias. Although, I don't see it as broadcasting your life if you list a few hobbies/interests etc. Obviously there are thing that would not be appropriate to air on here but thought there would be better odds at striking up a friendship if there was something listed in common/interesting etc

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Jessie - Posts: 203
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It's a cop out though. You couldn't share your life story in the allotted space unless you were too boring to be of any interest anyway. There's plenty to say that has nothing to do with deeply personal issues. *shrug*
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AmeriDutch - Posts: 329
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I'd say it was just being lazy. I would have thought that if people are serious about finding someone then they need to at least put some details there to try and get people interested. I came across one datecard recently which just had a name and a picture and that was it. I mean come on, what sort of use is that?
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BoredofBeingSingle - Posts: 207
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