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[Bill]

do younger women like older guys

[Jen]

I know some do! I have NEVER dated a guy that is younger than me. I like a real man!

[Chris]

I know some do! I have NEVER dated a guy that is younger than me. I like a real man!

What makes you think that just because a man is younger he isn't a "real man" ?

[Handy]

Often times there may or may not be a reason for younger women to date older guys. But then wouldn't that depend on your background? Russian women like to date older guys because of maturity or at least that is what I am informed by the Russian forums. I do not claim to be any expert but this is for here say. I took a train ride a long time ago and stated I would never get married before 40 because I want to experience life and have things streight financially, job wise and set things streight. I turn 40 and start looking but now I have to worry about robbing the cradle so to speak. I would love to have a family but for cohorts that may be out of the question. Someone younger could be a wonderful thought but I do not want to take anything away from any person. So then the value's set by an individual can certainly make a difference. On the other hand is it fair that I need to go through all this. I thought I was doing something wise? I am from the US and born hear but have followed some advice and now am trying to find someone but I have stayed single, maintained my virginity through 40, and have done everything to be descent and respectful. I break no laws and am trustworthy and respectful. So will younger women date older men?

[Jen]

I know some do! I have NEVER dated a guy that is younger than me. I like a real man!

What makes you think that just because a man is younger he isn't a "real man" ?

Ok, so I stated that wrong. A man can be a man at any age. I guesss the reason I tend to date older men, is they seem to be more responsible and have a a different kind of respect for women. I don't know I guess I have meet guys younger than me and they all seem like it is party time all the time. I am not saying ALL younger guys, just the ones I have met. I have been spoiled. The last guy I dated was very respectful and he held doors for me, and walked on the outer side of the road and carried bags. I guess what I should have said is that I guess I like older guys because they were raised to be old fashion gentlleman, it just the way people used to raise their kids.

I know you can generalize all men OR all women. I just tend to respond to older men, sorry personal prefference I guess.

[coton]

I go either way age-wise about 10-ish years. I've had guys in their 20's interested in me and while that is flattering, I feel like a mamma!! The older a person gets, the less age seems to matter. A girl in her 20's I think is either looking for daddy, a sugar daddy, or she is simply a mature woman and wanting a very solid man--careerwise and everything. For me at my age, my personal experience has been that a lot of descent guys are married or have out-the-nose child support payments. OR, they are looking for younger women.

coton

[Allan]

why does age have to matter ,if you find someone atractive that's all that matters,some girls in their 50s can be more attractive than girls in there teens,same goes for men

[Bert]

Younger women tend to look for an older guy for the simple reason that they are looking for respect and not to be treated like just another piece of "well you know"!I personally respect women of any age.I am not an a-hole but I have 1 and if I didn't I'd probably be full of sh*t now wouldn't I.