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Would Girls date me?
by AutumnWolf on Fri Apr 03, 2009 3:29 pm
I'm well aware of this being asked alot based on photos, but mine are all pretty bad. Im curious to know if I'm what some girls are looking for, and if I'm looking in all the wrong places. I'm the type of guy who some call a hopeless romantic. I belive Chivraly is not dead, and the simple acts of kindness add up. My opinon on love is that it may be blind, but it can still feel. I'm also a pretty shy guy at the begining of relationships, cause I need to trust the person before I open up or else the best you get are my nervous comments and trying to be friendly.
When I do open up to someone I'm a very nice guy. I'll listen to all you say and give my opinion when I feel nessecary. I love to listen... and find myself attracted to the mysterious girls so I can see what lies beneath the exterior and what is shown. Sorry if that sounds offensive I meant personality wise.
Even on the internet I feel nervous posting this because I am afraid of negitive repsonse, but thats the way I am... I fear the unknown and yet love it. Its strange. I'm a writer of Sci-fi novels and Fantasy and all my stories have Romance. I'm better at Romance novels then I am at action and such... But I still try.
I love Nature... the sights and smells of the world outside of what humans have built. Its peaceful to just sit in the middle of a forest or at an undiscovered lake and listen to the calming breeze, and the birds, and everything else that comes with it.
As you can tell by my name I love fall and Wolves... its also My Native Name given to me by my elders. I don't look native, but its in me.
I'm sensitive and emotional at times... Not my fault I just say Show the emotions rather then be a statue of stone. If this is against any rules... I apologize... If this belongs else were I apologize again... I just thought it would be something to post.
When I do open up to someone I'm a very nice guy. I'll listen to all you say and give my opinion when I feel nessecary. I love to listen... and find myself attracted to the mysterious girls so I can see what lies beneath the exterior and what is shown. Sorry if that sounds offensive I meant personality wise.
Even on the internet I feel nervous posting this because I am afraid of negitive repsonse, but thats the way I am... I fear the unknown and yet love it. Its strange. I'm a writer of Sci-fi novels and Fantasy and all my stories have Romance. I'm better at Romance novels then I am at action and such... But I still try.
I love Nature... the sights and smells of the world outside of what humans have built. Its peaceful to just sit in the middle of a forest or at an undiscovered lake and listen to the calming breeze, and the birds, and everything else that comes with it.
As you can tell by my name I love fall and Wolves... its also My Native Name given to me by my elders. I don't look native, but its in me.
I'm sensitive and emotional at times... Not my fault I just say Show the emotions rather then be a statue of stone. If this is against any rules... I apologize... If this belongs else were I apologize again... I just thought it would be something to post.
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Re: Would Girls date me?
by AutumnWolf on Fri Apr 03, 2009 7:02 pm
I feel so ignored
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Re: Would Girls date me?
by ~Missy~ on Sat Apr 04, 2009 12:44 am
most of my friend wouldn't but then most my friends think i am crazy because i play WoW. if you were older i would be wink at you. okay here is the thing the girl thats going to find you to be her type is a nerd (most likely). she proable doesn't go out much. try adding more photo. maybe some that are take outside. hope that helps a little sorry.
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Re: Would Girls date me?
by Dino on Sat Apr 04, 2009 12:55 am
Now, this is what your post translates to: BOOOOOOOORRRIIIIIING!
Girl will read that and that's what she'll think. Now, don't believe in the crap that girls looooooove such good (pussy) guys. They like the IDEA of em, but what they want is a challenge. Someone that can amuse em, make em laugh, not just nod and agree with everything they'll say. EVENTUALLY a girl will want such guy to settle down and start a family... but... before that...
That does not mean that you need to act like prick to girl and hit em or any stupid crap like that. NO! Just be FUN! Go crazy, be unpredictable. Go out tonight and have FUN. Chat up a girl or two. Anyone you meet at 1am in the morning outside on Saturday's night is there to HAVE FUN! If you see a girl with no guy, she is there for ONE reason. That reason might be you if you play it right...
But to get a girl more in your style... well, first think what kind of a girl would you like to date, and then try to be realistic what kind of a girl would date you. If you start seeing some things popping up in your head like "well, my dream girl would not date me because of X and Y" - Fix X and Y, if it is fixable. That does not mean that you have to go and get a plastic surgery or change your personality by 180°, but just... tweak yourself a bit. Improve yourself
And always remember to HAVE FUN, it's a game. "Take your life as a joke."
Girl will read that and that's what she'll think. Now, don't believe in the crap that girls looooooove such good (pussy) guys. They like the IDEA of em, but what they want is a challenge. Someone that can amuse em, make em laugh, not just nod and agree with everything they'll say. EVENTUALLY a girl will want such guy to settle down and start a family... but... before that...
That does not mean that you need to act like prick to girl and hit em or any stupid crap like that. NO! Just be FUN! Go crazy, be unpredictable. Go out tonight and have FUN. Chat up a girl or two. Anyone you meet at 1am in the morning outside on Saturday's night is there to HAVE FUN! If you see a girl with no guy, she is there for ONE reason. That reason might be you if you play it right...
But to get a girl more in your style... well, first think what kind of a girl would you like to date, and then try to be realistic what kind of a girl would date you. If you start seeing some things popping up in your head like "well, my dream girl would not date me because of X and Y" - Fix X and Y, if it is fixable. That does not mean that you have to go and get a plastic surgery or change your personality by 180°, but just... tweak yourself a bit. Improve yourself
And always remember to HAVE FUN, it's a game. "Take your life as a joke."
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Re: Would Girls date me?
by AutumnWolf on Sat Apr 04, 2009 11:45 am
I see what you mean Dino, but I'll say this once... My personality is a double edge, one min I could be calm and nice, while the next I could be cazy and unpredictable... last time that happened I went sky diving for no reason once so ever... Life can be a game... If I'm in the right mind.
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Re: Would Girls date me?
by Liz on Tue May 05, 2009 12:37 am
well if you're gonna say that one minute you can be calm and the next you're all crazy. then no i dont think i would want to date you.
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Re: Would Girls date me?
by uV on Wed May 06, 2009 6:51 am
I see what you mean, but I'll say this once...
My personality is a double edge, one min I could be calm and nice, while the next I could be cazy and unpredictable... last time that happened I went sky diving for no reason once so ever... Life can be a game... If I'm in the right mind.
My personality is a double edge, one min I could be calm and nice, while the next I could be cazy and unpredictable... last time that happened I went sky diving for no reason once so ever... Life can be a game... If I'm in the right mind.
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