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[George]

Why do we get winks and then reply! just to get no answers?
It seems to me that most of the women here say they want a relation but don't really mean it.
I'm sure I've heard this cliche before somewhere and I think it's not just the men here that don't like this sort of thing, or is it????????????

[portglasgowmale]

i often wonder whether we are being censored, ive noticed this on some sites with winks and the like, after all the management wont make any money if we log on and meet someone first day on.

I suppose some women do enjoy the attention, so if they can turn round and say they had 10 replies it gives them a little boost, its like married women liking to be seen getting chatted to by young good looking blokes and like wise why blokes will let good looking women in front of them in queues and at traffic lights, they dont think they are going to get anywhere but it gives them a week boost.

[teddygirl]

its not as easy as that we may not be able to reply. sometimes we get blocked. so we need to find way of putting e mail ###

[teddygirl]

its not as easy as that we may not be able to reply. sometimes we get blocked. so we need to find way of putting e mail ###

[Bookgirl1990]

girls/women also are looking for something specific in mind, not just someone random, and when we do reply it means something to us, and besides winks dont mean anything, if u want to get the girls/women attention write something down, be intersting, that is the only way to get a reply, oh and just fyi we do like attention, but on our terms no one eles

[Sailyman]

Sometimes I wonder if it isn't a bot run by the site. I am a programmer, that is my trade so I can tell you it would not be that difficult. Simply use the profiles and images of people that are no longer active on a site, take your zip code and find those inactive people that are within a reasonable geographic distance from you, autogen a wink and then when you respond.............nothing. You think at first, all well, then you get another and another. Then, in your email you start seeing this person or that person is interested in you, but nothing really happens.

I am pretty new to this site so the debate is still out here for me. However, I was duped to becoming a paid member of a couple of other sites and they were both complete scams. Even after I had dis-enrolled for months the emails kept coming in. Finally I had to block their domains from my email altogether.

I am no angel, but predatory business practices like that....really! There are many of us that don't like the 25 and under meat market scene, that have careers and need to find an outlet to meet descent people. No offense ya'll, but I'm not the church group type so where does that leave a single daddy like me?

[JohnW]

girls/women also are looking for something specific in mind, not just someone random, and when we do reply it means something to us, and besides winks dont mean anything, if u want to get the girls/women attention write something down, be intersting, that is the only way to get a reply, oh and just fyi we do like attention, but on our terms no one eles

Problem is that if you're not a premium member you can't always write something if I remember correctly.

[Romann]

Make sure that you reply about something in their profile. If there is no info then look for something in their photo. It seems to work pretty good for me. Besides I love it when woman takes the time to read my profile. You would be surprised how many don't, and they say that we are shallow!

[Jason]

Why do we get winks and then reply! just to get no answers?
It seems to me that most of the women here say they want a relation but don't really mean it.
I'm sure I've heard this cliche before somewhere and I think it's not just the men here that don't like this sort of thing, or is it????????????

Its a numbers game just like anywhere else i.e., the bar. The more you give out the more you will get. Just make sure you are smiling on your profile pix

[Cori]

girls/women also are looking for something specific in mind, not just someone random, and when we do reply it means something to us, and besides winks dont mean anything, if u want to get the girls/women attention write something down, be intersting, that is the only way to get a reply, oh and just fyi we do like attention, but on our terms no one eles

Amen to that.