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[Sophiiee :)]

Why do we get winks and then reply! just to get no answers?
It seems to me that most of the women here say they want a relation but don't really mean it.
I'm sure I've heard this cliche before somewhere and I think it's not just the men here that don't like this sort of thing, or is it????????????

Its probs cos we dont pay the money so then we cant reply to the messages

[Bookgirl1990]

girls/women also are looking for something specific in mind, not just someone random, and when we do reply it means something to us, and besides winks dont mean anything, if u want to get the girls/women attention write something down, be intersting, that is the only way to get a reply, oh and just fyi we do like attention, but on our terms no one eles

Problem is that if you're not a premium member you can't always write something if I remember correctly.

your point being what exactly, if i want to post something i will find a way, and besides im still seeing if i want to be a member or not

[Jessie]

girls/women also are looking for something specific in mind, not just someone random, and when we do reply it means something to us, and besides winks dont mean anything, if u want to get the girls/women attention write something down, be intersting, that is the only way to get a reply, oh and just fyi we do like attention, but on our terms no one eles

Hell yeah Bookgirl!!! I have had this same conversation in the "ask a guy" section of the community and I can't believe how unrealistic some people are about this! For me, there has to be something on the profile to make me want to talk to this person so if you only have "ask me" in your story, I'm probably not gonna bother cause to me, I would think that this person isn't serious about meeting anyone.

[JohnW]

girls/women also are looking for something specific in mind, not just someone random, and when we do reply it means something to us, and besides winks dont mean anything, if u want to get the girls/women attention write something down, be intersting, that is the only way to get a reply, oh and just fyi we do like attention, but on our terms no one eles

Problem is that if you're not a premium member you can't always write something if I remember correctly.

your point being what exactly, if i want to post something i will find a way, and besides im still seeing if i want to be a member or not

I mean that the FreeHookup rules or what ever it is doesn't allow you to write anything in winks if you're not a premium member so you can't! on the other hand if you email instead then you should be able to write, I think it's limited to x amount of emails per day ot something like that though. You can always post in the forums though.
Check out the help section next to the community button in the top right corner on the page, you can read all about it there!

[good4u]

girls/women also are looking for something specific in mind, not just someone random, and when we do reply it means something to us, and besides winks dont mean anything, if u want to get the girls/women attention write something down, be intersting, that is the only way to get a reply, oh and just fyi we do like attention, but on our terms no one eles

Gentlemen read this carefully:

'...besides winks dont mean anything, if u want to get the girls/women attention write something down,...'

Bookgirl1990 is absolutely correct. C'mon guys, a wink w/nothing to say...do you know how cheesy that comes across to a female? If you can't say something along w/the wink, then what r u gonna say if I were to meet u, will it just be sign language? I will always ignore those winks unless u say something along with it. ALWAYS.

[Bookgirl1990]

thank you ladies for saying something, and for elbrating on what i said early, and now to be more specific for those guys who dont understand what women say and think.

Guys, girls/women need information to decied if we are intersted or not, no matter the age, or how the guy looks like, and yes looks are plus, we like knowing whats going on in his head, and what he is about, that is how we decied if we like the guy or not, not if he sends winks, winks get boring! and boring is no fun, and we like a little fun in our lives.

and guys i would suggest watching the movie "what women want", you might learn something, or not, that is up to you

[Lippy]

i reply to all the winks i get but they are annoying as nothing else is said so u guys are just as bad. however if u are serious about meeting someone then get in touch with them with more than a wink

[JohnW]

To be honest I don't get why people don't send a message instead of winks, I'm shy but I still would send a message introducing myself, though in the beginning when I first came here I'd prolly wink first but I learn as I go so now I'd send a message.

Hmm, Just came to think of something, I use swedish language on this site and I have two buttons on the profile pages, one that says "Flirt" and one that says "email" is this the same for the rest of you? I may have a big misunderstanding going here so please let me know!

[Michael]

I send winks to get noticed so people read my profile and contact me through the book of faces.

I have not joined as i feel i am going to send emails to people and find they will not reply.

[Pattycakes]

I totally agree on this..I mean, What do we actually get out of a wink that isnt even actually a real wink. If i get a wink from a man...i would love for it to be in person, so i can see his eyes.. I love to look into a man's eyes..A person's eyes can tell a whole story if you look into them long enough. So, Yea, Guys and gals, If you take time to wink on here, take time to drop a note..give your email address or im address so you might possibly get a wink in person..I am looking forward to get my face to face wink....