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[Al3x guerreiro]

i am a shy guy and i have some dificulties in express my feelings and when i am texting with a girl and after some dates i tell my feelings abbout her and then she dumps me really i need some help please

[Natalina]

What kind of feelings are you telling her?

[Tommeh]

Word of advice:

Don't overdo the texting, if you send a barrage of texts they (girls) will get wary of you and think you're obsessive. Give them room to breathe, let them have their space.

Also, don't try and convey what you're feeling too soon! You don't wanna come across as one of those lemons who falls in love the second a girl shows him any attention.

Best piece of advice I'd give to ya, is to chill. Make her laugh, don't try and push frightening words like "love" into sentences until she starts getting annoyed that you haven't said it yet.. and by that time you've already been dating so long its easy from there!

Good luck.

[Redcapote]

Tommeh is right. From my experience, pushing the feelings on too fast is a surefire way to kill a good thing early. Just have to back off, because as unnatural as it is to pretend it doesn't mean a lot to you, when you act like it means everything to you, it's over. Nice and slow. Sometimes weeks or months until the right opportunity sort of just comes about.

[Jess]

Im agreeing with the boys here , take it easy ...breathe.
I had a boyfriend who was mad with telling me he loved me which i dont mind but sometimes when you say something so much it loses its meaning you know but leave the saying u love her untill about the 10th date haha and do it wen your with her to c wat she says like hope that helps xxx

[Swapneel]

Dude take a break frist see who r u spkn with if u2 r in d same linesss and then jump to telll her stufff give it time but dnt wait to longgg there r plenty of fish in d pond im sure ull find 1
cheers