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why do women put an emphasis on height
Hey, I am good looking man. Met and dated a lot of women when I was younger. Things are different now and trying out online dating. I feel like it is hard to meet a woman because as soon as they see I am 5'7 it is like a turn off to them because women want the typical 6'0. Are there taller women who actually like shorter guys??
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Jason - Posts: 24
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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height
i dont think height is an issue, i know plenty of women who date guys that are shorter
then they are, and they are still dating them keep ya chin up not every woman is looking for the typical 6" ft guy although it may seem that way...
remember its always qaulity over qauntity
then they are, and they are still dating them keep ya chin up not every woman is looking for the typical 6" ft guy although it may seem that way...

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Kayla - Posts: 6
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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height
Kayla, thanks for the reply
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Jason - Posts: 24
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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height
i'm no psychologist but my random quack theories do make sense and are often correct (once i google it) so here's my explination:
unless their fathers were total douches, the child will look up to him and (in the case of women) will subconsciously want to be with someone like him (not an incest thing, more of a dependability issue). the subconscious attachment forms when the child is young (before the rebellious phase) and at this point the child is significantly shorter than the father (in most cases at least. if the father's a dwarf then it's anyone's guess). when the woman starts seeking an appropriate mate, they unknowingly seek the height because being in the arms of a much taller man makes them feel safe like when the father held them when they were children.
that's my theory anyway. personally i don't consider Sigmund Freud to be a credible source (what i studied of him in uni made me think he is the worst kind of pdophile) but if anyone does respect him, his theory on the "Oedipus Complex" does somewhat give credibility to my theory.
it even works the other way round. i generally prefer girls my height or shorter, but i do find myself inexplicbly attracted to taller women.
unless their fathers were total douches, the child will look up to him and (in the case of women) will subconsciously want to be with someone like him (not an incest thing, more of a dependability issue). the subconscious attachment forms when the child is young (before the rebellious phase) and at this point the child is significantly shorter than the father (in most cases at least. if the father's a dwarf then it's anyone's guess). when the woman starts seeking an appropriate mate, they unknowingly seek the height because being in the arms of a much taller man makes them feel safe like when the father held them when they were children.
that's my theory anyway. personally i don't consider Sigmund Freud to be a credible source (what i studied of him in uni made me think he is the worst kind of pdophile) but if anyone does respect him, his theory on the "Oedipus Complex" does somewhat give credibility to my theory.
it even works the other way round. i generally prefer girls my height or shorter, but i do find myself inexplicbly attracted to taller women.
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Dylan - Posts: 60
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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height
Im 5'7
anyway... for me height is deff a issue!
I find sorter guys a turn off.
anyway... for me height is deff a issue!
I find sorter guys a turn off.

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JESSY. - Posts: 22
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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height
think im lucky im 6ft

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Alan Alpha - Posts: 1185
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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height
yeahh might help ya out
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JESSY. - Posts: 22
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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height
JESSY. wrote:yeahh might help ya out...
lol then y am i still single seems hight aint everythin

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Alan Alpha - Posts: 1185
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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height
maybe grow some more

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JESSY. - Posts: 22
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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height
lol i stoped growing in height wen i hit 6ft dunno why tho >.
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Alan Alpha - Posts: 1185
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