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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby Jason 6 days, 9 hours ago

Mikki wrote:It's a preference thing.

I like tall men. Some men don't like me because I'm not skinny. Some guys do like me because of my generous figure. Preferences are personal, so you really can't change what people like and don't like.

HOWEVER... most women realize that when they find a good man, he will not possess every trait that she wants. It comes down to what a woman will sacrifice and the other qualities that a man possesses. If I meet a guy who is your height (aka my height) I may be able to overlook his height if he has a killer smile and an awesome personality.

Sorry that was very rambling... I guess the point is, don't let it get to you. The right person won't care.



I hear you, but, one thing, I cant change my height, but you can change your weight!

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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby Jocelynne 6 days, 8 hours ago

Jason wrote:

I hear you, but, one thing, I cant change my height, but you can change your weight!


How very insensitive :x

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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby THE LEGEND 6 days, 1 hour ago

so ya... I am about 5'9 and height has not been an issue for me. My problem is i am almost ready to settle down but I can't seem to find that person who makes me happy @ least 85% of the time :(thinkin maybe my expectations are 2 high.



Was with a girl for almost 3 yrs and jus left her in 2 days got all my stuff outta our apartment and paid my part and left lolz


Maybe i have trouble commitin 2 1 person. I unno What u all think?

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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby Susan 5 days, 22 hours ago

I am 5'9 and my last significant other was 5'7 Yes there are taller women that date shorter men. But I feel it is a security issue. As women we like to feel secure and protected. I just feel a man taller then a woman helps to create that secure feeling. Keep looking, the right one is out there.

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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby Jason 4 days, 9 hours ago

Jocelynne wrote:
Jason wrote:

I hear you, but, one thing, I cant change my height, but you can change your weight!


How very insensitive :x



It has nothing to to with being sensitive, it is reality!

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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby shane 4 days, 8 hours ago

I dont know :lol:

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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby shane 4 days, 8 hours ago

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Why is you supposed Moral ppl can sit around passing judgement on other ppls choices I always thought live and let live was the way to go but hey maybe when you grow up you will see that it is wrong to dis others for there personal choices that YOU may not agree until then enjoy the limited lives you will so obviously lead :twisted::twisted:

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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby Jocelynne 4 days, 8 hours ago

Jason wrote:
Jocelynne wrote:
Jason wrote:

I hear you, but, one thing, I cant change my height, but you can change your weight!


How very insensitive :x



It has nothing to to with being sensitive, it is reality!


:x :x :x :x :x Seriously though that is truely insensitive and NO ONE deserves to be treated like that. Have you ever thought of how it feels to be in a person's shoes that are overweight?? What goes around comes around. I hope that many women see this post and see what kind of man you really are! :x :x :x :x :x :x :x

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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby Lozzy 4 days, 8 hours ago

Tact is quite a useful feather in the cap, knowing when to retract a statement and apologise is also a sign of humility... Tact will keep you out of trouble, humility will dig you out of it.
Both are a turn ON, to either sex... having neither will not be usefull in the quest for a relationship.

example : "especially when your 5.6"

*NOTE* I am what's known as a forum whore, im a veteran in the art of counter flame and rational argument.

- Loz

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Re: why do women put an emphasis on height

Postby Mikki 4 days, 7 hours ago

Thanks to everyone who stood up for me! Wow!! But it's ok, what he thinks of me doesn't matter.

See, my point is, yes, I could be anorexic and lose a bunch of weight and be "skinny." But I wouldn't be happy. There are people in this world who love me as I am, so I am patiently waiting because the right man won't care if I am a size 10 or a size 20. He will love me for my essence, not its container. The same thing applies to your height.

It's funny how the phrase "generous figure" turned into "overweight." For the record, you don't know how big or small I am. You assumed that "generous" meant fat. I was giving an honest answer, and well, you made an ass of yourself.

Good job!

P.S. If you didn't read the awesome post by Loz, read it. Absorb it. Use it.

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