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why do u like to be abused????? just a ?

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why do u like to be abused????? just a ?

Postby sickwit666 on Sat Apr 11, 2009 9:21 pm

what is it with those of u who like to be treated like dog shit on a shoe u were about to throw away? U know i never know if i should hold the door open for u or punch u in the eye and yell DONT MAKE ME TELL U AGAIN!!! could u help me out here ? could it be my parants lied to me about Santa , tha Easter Buny, and that u should always treat a lady with respect. say it aint so but if u would let me know.

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Re: why do u like to be abused????? just a ?

Postby tombgard2 on Sun Apr 12, 2009 9:29 pm

My opinion is they get treated like shit by guys when they first start dateing and thats wat they get attracted to. then they look for the good guy afterwards like a rebound , girls like to be hurt cause then they can be comforted, girl got to be hurt alot till they get the picture

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Re: why do u like to be abused????? just a ?

Postby Liz on Tue May 05, 2009 5:44 pm

nobody likes to be abused. sometimes it's because of the persons past or low self esteem. if it was up to them they would want something healthy but when they're used to depending on someone then it;s hard walking from something because you get those dumb ideas that "he'll change" so they stay. sad knowing that never happens though. i feel bad for those type of females but sometimes it's not their fault so they put up with it.

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Re: why do u like to be abused????? just a ?

Postby Bex on Wed May 06, 2009 1:59 pm

this may not have anything to do with it but as a the saying goes "you always want what you can't have" and if somebody treats you badly, if you like them theres that need to be liked back, and the worse they treat you the more you want them to want you. so........you stay with them and eventually people in those enviroments grow custom to it, and expect people to treat them that way because its what there use too.

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Postby Bridgette on Wed May 06, 2009 8:45 pm

personaly i do not tallereate a person treeting me like trash in my experience when a man has treeted me like trash i stood up for myself i personaly will not let any guy treet me like crap then agin fighting with my older brothers probly taught me fromn a young age that no one els is going to stand up for me. i like the nice guys who open the door for me and show respect, alot of the time when a partner in a relationship allows someone to treet them badly is when that particular person has a low self esteem and in there mind they beive either that other person will change or that they dont deserve any better even though that isn't true..

it always comes back to the lovely saying ''love is blind ''

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