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why do i pick the wrong girls!

Postby chris ghiraldi 70 days, 5 hours ago

i think it s impossible to know what someone is like off the bat but if you have chemistry then you have chemistry.... but 8 months after a 5 yr relationship i wonder if i can go thru that again. help me find the right girl
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Re: why do i pick the wrong girls!

Postby Diana 70 days, 1 hour ago

Hi Chris, Just having gone through a divorce sometimes I ask myself the same things. I can only tell you things happen for a reason. I think you have to experience heartache to make you realize when you have something really good. I think you also have to be friends with your partner. The right girl is out there waiting on you and I'm sure you will findher when you least expect it!

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Postby Crista 62 days, 6 hours ago

I know how u feel, and its hard.

I was with my ex for a lil over 2 years. Its been almost a year since we broke up, and I have dated an such, but its still hard to get out there and start all over again. I just find it hard to get close to guys after going thru what I have. Ugh I remind myself of an old woman saying that. Lol anyway, I just remember that there r billions of ppl out there, so its going to take time to sort thru all the ones that dont match :)

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Re: why do i pick the wrong girls!

Postby Darren 61 days, 9 hours ago

Definately need to be friends!! Definately be able to talk about gripes and sort them out!! and be able to Apologise when u r wrong!! Definately be Honest with urself and her and live for the moment everytime.........May look really nice but u need t see it isnt allways about that. Bonus if they are but dont be fooled by that alone.

After 16 years found that my intuition on this/my relationship 3 weeks after i met my X Wife turned out to be true and i should of let her walk, well i did lol... and she came back!!, spoilt is a nasty trait!! but i reckon u know within 2 months how some thing will pan out, gives enough time for the nastiness to come if there is any m8 good luck and if its crap let it walk m8...16 years was a long time dont make the same mistake ;)

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Postby Precious 58 days ago

Your not the only one!!! We girls tend to pick the wrong guys too (hence the reason we are all on this single site). All I can say is it has been more than 3 yrs since I have been in a relationship and more than 7 yrs since a serious relationship...it will get better I promise. 1st thing you gotta do is find yourself. We tend to lose a part of ourself in a relationship due to all the compromises we make. A part we dont even realize is missing until we become single again. It could be as simple as a hobby you used to love. Once you are comfortable with yourself again the right person will come along, but you wont find them if you cant portray who you truely are. A 5 yr relationship will take some time to get over and at 1st all you need is a date here and there (get back on the horse so to speak). It will be hard to put your heart back out there but with each date it will get easier, and when that person does come along you wont think twice about putting your heart out there for her to take....Good Luck :)

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Re: why do i pick the wrong girls!

Postby Clint 57 days, 20 hours ago

Look bro,you ain't looking for the right girl, chemistry? What the fuck ###e girl was looking good and you my friend were looking for someone to accompany you through that period of your ###y no ones blaming you for wanting someone to share certain life experiences with,and sex my friend,always better with the ###u said however you knew after eight months that shit wasn't good and you didn't want to have to go through another five years,making it sound like it was a painful process ending it.#1 you knew it was fuct from the start.#2you tricked yourself into thinking it might change.#3you are acting like you got somewhat attached.(in most cases,thats just an act of a ###d to answer your question straight up,Why do you pick the wrong hoes? The fucking challenge...What feels better then working your ass off to obtain a goal and actually accomplishing that very fucking goal?And this Chris is why you pick the wrong girls,because you enjoy the challenge of making your girl,the girl you feel that she is or that she could be...Thats just how I see it.

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Re: why do i pick the wrong girls!

Postby Chris 57 days, 6 hours ago

Dude, i know the feeling. I'm a magnet for derelicts.

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Re: why do i pick the wrong girls!

Postby Jewel 23 days, 3 hours ago

Maybe you should let someone else pick a woman for you......If your way is not working try something new - I am divorced after a 20 year relationship and absolutely suck at dating, I dont know how to do it, but you must have some friends that know what they are talking about....Utilize their expertise.....When you least expect it - someone wonderful will be there...... ;)

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Re: why do i pick the wrong girls!

Postby Elma 22 days, 16 hours ago

I have been single for years and i still don´t know if i can go out there and take the risk of getting hurt and burnt all over.
One part of me wants to find the right guy, someone to share my life with, have fun with, love, be loved by.....
Another part of me screams NO NO
It´s like there is war inside me.
If i get so lucky to find the right buy or he finds me then i´ll grab the chance i get.
If we don´t take risks then we won´t get far and we won´t find what we are looking for.
Perhabs it´s best to think, be happy while it lasts and if it doesn´t work out then look at it as an experience that you at least got some happiness out of.
Everything that has a beginning has an ending.

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