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why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Calvin 251 days, 9 hours ago

as question sez,, why do girls do that? reason i ask is because i rekon im a decent guy i got 3 jobs,i treat girls with respect,,then u seem 2 be getting some where,then all of a sudden the convo n txting stops,,then u find out she starting to date a nob head,,is it because they want status hence y they d8 these fools?

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Postby Robert 173 days, 5 hours ago

Guy's that are seen as rebels ,are a challenge for a girl .Nice guy's are no challenge .
I am 53 ,Fly planes ,Ships Captain ,downhill skied,hunted(wild Bison),....
I treat Ladies with respect,and unfortunately put them on a pedastal.
I have few dates ,assholes I would punch out have the girls .I guess they have the nice guy's
too easy.
If someone could explain females to me .I will consider the reply.
I have lots of replies from females who choose the dangerous guy ,now have children .
It sucks but now the girls want the dependable guy.
I am stubborn ,I will find a Lady who likes me to be me (visa/versa),I will support her and hopefully me.
If ,I cannot find this female person to spend my time with,I will be fine .Just lacking in conversation.
Robert

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Postby Lucia 169 days, 23 hours ago

I will b so quick but honest hea!! Every girl wants to be the one.. "THE ONE" to change the bad guy and make him fall in love with her so much that he stops his wicked ways bla bla bla and then usually once theyre in too deep {the girl} they realise that he'll never change but they hold on "just in case"..

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Postby Vedran 164 days, 10 hours ago

Lucia put it there just right :)totally agree :D

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Postby Christopher 164 days, 6 hours ago

Lucia wrote:I will b so quick but honest hea!! Every girl wants to be the one.. "THE ONE" to change the bad guy and make him fall in love with her so much that he stops his wicked ways bla bla bla and then usually once theyre in too deep {the girl} they realise that he'll never change but they hold on "just in case"..


Well...if this is the case...

*Pretends to dip into the naughty side of bad boyism to give the girl the impression that i am super wild and slowly revert to the nice guy that I am*...

Well maybe not that nice ;)

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Postby Robert 162 days, 11 hours ago

Thanks for the replies.An old one liner "Joke"may have some truth to it,
"The only thing a women will definately change in a man is his diaper".

Could it be we all look for our controllable rebel partner,that is exciting to be with?
Never really sure what to expect,excitment?

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Postby Mr. Wrong 162 days, 9 hours ago

Robert wrote:Guy's that are seen as rebels ,are a challenge for a girl .Nice guy's are no challenge .
I am 53 ,Fly planes ,Ships Captain ,downhill skied,hunted(wild Bison),....
I treat Ladies with respect,and unfortunately put them on a pedastal.
I have few dates ,assholes I would punch out have the girls .I guess they have the nice guy's
too easy.
If someone could explain females to me .I will consider the reply.
I have lots of replies from females who choose the dangerous guy ,now have children .
It sucks but now the girls want the dependable guy.
I am stubborn ,I will find a Lady who likes me to be me (visa/versa),I will support her and hopefully me.
If ,I cannot find this female person to spend my time with,I will be fine .Just lacking in conversation.
Robert


Since the beginning of our existence women have pursued alpha males. Through time, religion, society, romantic comedies, books, music, etc… have convinced women that they want a man with beta male characteristics. You will often hear women say that they’re looking for Mr. Right or asking if there are any nice guys left. The only problem is that a women’s primal instinct still wants an alpha male.

Beta males always perceive alpha males as assholes or bad guys even when it’s not the case. They put them down to help themselves feel better about their own insecurities. From a beta males perspective it will always look like women are falling for Mr. Wrong. The reality is that even though women say they want a beta male they are only attracted to alpha males. Although, once a woman is in a relationship with an alpha male she will then instinctively try to turn him into a beta male. The only problem with that is women are not attracted to beta males and if you let them succeed your relationship will soon be over.

It doesn’t mater how you look, how much money you make or how many titles you hold it all comes down to your personality. Are you an alpha male or a beta male? One of the main characteristics of an alpha male is confidence. Work on that and you’ll see huge difference in the way women respond to you.

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Postby Todd 161 days, 11 hours ago

I thing "Mr. Wrong" has it "right." In so many ways he has accurately described reality. I can honestly say that the women who have hurt me the most or caused the most heartache and set backs in my life have been the ones who can't let go of wanting an alpha male (that she can convert to beta male). These are the women who allow men in their lives who treat them (and their children) like crap. So in seconding Mr. Wrong's comments, I would urge us all to stop deluding ourselves with the belief that a woman will be attracted to you because you are educated, polite, stable, etc. As said, it all boils down to personality and confidence.

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Postby AlisonF 160 days, 8 hours ago

I have a real soft spot for bad boys. For me it's because I don't know any different. Bad experiences have led me to believe I don't deserve to be treated well. It's something I'm working on! Sometimes a nice guy just has to be patient and make the girl believe he's not going to hurt her.

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Postby Joe Blo 160 days, 7 hours ago

The way I see it is if a woman wants a 'bad boy' then that's upto them, if they don't want to be with a nice-ish guy like me then that is fine. At the end of the day I still have fun regardless of who I'm with, I think you have to be content with who you are before you meet that special someone.

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