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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Kitti 25 days, 23 hours ago

Simply for the thrill. Like bungee jumping, sky diving, ect.... It is a rush to have this bad a$$ guy want you. To feel protected from everyone and know no one is going to mess with you. Just like bungee jumping & sky diving it is fleeting moment in time. Eventually the girl wises up and chooses a nice guy to build a relationship with.

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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby bxjasmine29 25 days, 16 hours ago

Becaues girls like to look in the worng places for looking for guys and also once you found a bab guy you can even chages them lol..... :)

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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Monica 24 days, 11 hours ago

Some (not all) people (women and men) want exactly what they can not have. So if you stop noticing that girl for a while (not too much cause then she'll just think you don't like her) she'll do everything she can to get a little attention. While if you're suffocating her with too much attention she'll end up running away from you.
But you're always better off looking for someone who appreciates you the way you are.
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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Tanya 24 days, 9 hours ago

Because that is what most women know - they know how to be treated like shit - they don't know or understand that they deserve better - or what that even looks or feels like - it's a whole mind set that women have, they would rather be treated like shit - which they are used to, than venture into the unknown with a different type of guy and perhaps be treated with some respect (which some women can't comprehend). They don't know what to do when someone treats them well cause they always have their dukes up cause they are used to the shit they balways have to take.... I'm 32, never been married no kids - did divorce law so i've seen it all.....the other reason might be that women go for guys that they see the potential in but but are badasses/losers/addicts/liars/cheaters/assbags, they think they can change them - but an asshole is an asshole and the only behaviour you can change or control is your own. Girls stop wasting time on these LOSERS!!!!! I'm speaking from experience - I learned the hard way - Later T

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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Omid 24 days, 4 hours ago

guys give you want you want. your expecting excitement. the guy that isn't neccessarily a bad boy will go to extremes because you are pulling those strings. you want excitment but you also want to find the "sweet guy to take home to mummy and daddy". You can't have it both ways. Girls are basically manipulators anyway so we either come up for air sometims by cutting you loose when you get all nutty or we ignore your need to change us until someone else comes along, and any other combinations of shit you make us do with your nutty behavior.

I think allot of men consider women as basically the same in most respects which is as true as saying men are all the same. find me one guy that hasn't been burned and I'll show you a guy who has never been with a women. if you find him marry him. oh, but wait..you'll probably burn him to because he's not giving you excitement. what you're missing.. again. And the cycle continues..

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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Omid 24 days, 4 hours ago

Kitti wrote:Simply for the thrill. Like bungee jumping, sky diving, ect.... It is a rush to have this bad a$$ guy want you. To feel protected from everyone and know no one is going to mess with you. Just like bungee jumping & sky diving it is fleeting moment in time. Eventually the girl wises up and chooses a nice guy to build a relationship with.


some of the badest boys couldn't fight their way out a wet paper napkin drapped over their face so how are they going to protect you? if a jock comes over this bad boy is probably not going to protect you so much as he's going to do something crazy.

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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Kitti 19 days, 10 hours ago

Omid wrote:
Kitti wrote:Simply for the thrill. Like bungee jumping, sky diving, ect.... It is a rush to have this bad a$$ guy want you. To feel protected from everyone and know no one is going to mess with you. Just like bungee jumping & sky diving it is fleeting moment in time. Eventually the girl wises up and chooses a nice guy to build a relationship with.


some of the badest boys couldn't fight their way out a wet paper napkin drapped over their face so how are they going to protect you? if a jock comes over this bad boy is probably not going to protect you so much as he's going to do something crazy.



True! But it is all in appearance. Typically if the guy is tall & muscular with tats and chains and acts like a bad ass the jocks tend to steer clear. (been there done that) That is why I chose the words "FEEL protected". I also said most (not all) will wise up.

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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Elma 19 days, 7 hours ago

Calvin wrote:as question sez,, why do girls do that? reason i ask is because i rekon im a decent guy i got 3 jobs,i treat girls with respect,,then u seem 2 be getting some where,then all of a sudden the convo n txting stops,,then u find out she starting to date a nob head,,is it because they want status hence y they d8 these fools?

I think it has got to do with mature.
What i have seen around is that this is more common with younger women.
But when women get to a point in their lifes they start to appreciate the nice guys.
It´s that way with me at least.

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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Michael 18 days, 22 hours ago

i see the same crap here in atlanta. women who treat there lady like crap and don't care but yet they keep going back to them. do they like being treated like crap? maybe that episode of family guy i saw about this subject was true.

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Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

Postby Omid 18 days, 5 hours ago

why hasn't anyone mentioned the obvious. money. sometimes it's the lifestyle he has that she won't give up. if he's got money girls will date him even if he does treat her like yesterday's garbage. again she's the one making the choice and money and lifestyle carries more weight than a guys behavior as it pertains to her.

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