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[Angella]

not all women want the bad guy some of us do want the nice guys who will treat us right . but sometimes all we seem to find is the bad boys ,

[Optiron]

Yep here is my way of thinking about it. If I woman prefers a bad boy or someone that treats them like crap then they deserve every bit of misery that comes with it. I have no sympathy of them and I wont sit around listening to them bitch and moan about how their man does this bad thing and that bad thing. You picked them, you stuck around and you reap what you sow.

[Dean]

I will b so quick but honest hea!! Every girl wants to be the one.. "THE ONE" to change the bad guy and make him fall in love with her so much that he stops his wicked ways bla bla bla and then usually once theyre in too deep {the girl} they realise that he'll never change but they hold on "just in case"..

I'd say thats bang on.
Thats why they love guys in prison with a reputation of being a hard man, or someone who isn't even tough but acts it, so he creates the image that he is and the girl falls for that image.

I say to all you guys - shave your heads, shave pieces out your eyebrows, and bulk up and get a couple of tatts and every secound words is fcuk and then get tooled up and walk with a limp or with your arms out waving. If that sounds to chavvy/rudeboy to you then stay at home and watch eastenders

[Omid]

girls don't start liking the guy that's treat them bad immediatly. they feel inadequate. besides guys usually are nice to them until they get to know that he turns out to be a jerk it's too late.

[Dana]

never gonna know that ###y to get friend away from dink that beat her,so she runs to his best freind?????????????.

[Bex]

as the saying goes "you always want what you can't have" if somebody treats you badly, and you like them theres that need to be liked back, and the worse they treat you the more you want them to want you. so........you stay with them and eventually people in those enviroments grow custom to it, and expect people to treat them that way because its what there use too.

theres also the bad boy presona that is really attractive to some women, so they stay with them some times they have to sides to them when you come across there nice affectionate side it makes them so much more appealing knowing that they have that side.

in movies theres aways that amazing girl that transforms and saves the redelious bad boy from himself its kinda like an underlying fantasy wanting to be able to concor the bad boy and hav e him love you genuinely :)

[Ransik]

It's not "wanting an alpha male". If this were WAY back with primitive man... the guys who act like that would be killed. Almost all the verbal/physical abusers who treat women like garbage are twice the size of the woman and they are the ONLY ones that the guy can pick on because "she loves him" and will put up with it.

On the flip side... guys do not go seeking out skanks and b*****s. At least.... I've never heard a single guy stand around and say; "Yeah man, I want to find the worst woman around... complains non-stop, constantly claims I cheat on her when I go to work, and thinks she's better than everyone else. That's what I want!"

No... guys who can read at a 2nd grade level do NOT talk like that, especially the "nice guys". Problem is... only those kinds of girls are usually left single because they don't understand the basic concept of human intreraction and can only find a walking doormat to be with. My ex was like that... started a year into the relationship and within 3 months after that... she was given an ultimatum to smarten up or get lost and I broke up with her a month later for becoming worse.

In response to the couple of women who said they pursue bad boys in order to "fix them up and be proud ot have changed them".... and I can't say this without being mean; That makes you an idiot. That's why there are so many abuse reports around the world. Smarten up... find someone with a brain, a sense of humor and an adult mindset who can wipe his own butt... and get over the "bad boy" mentality. Lately I've tried to look at women in that sense... and I can NOT for the life of me figure out what makes women attracted to morons. Do you think I want to date the crack addict at work who drinks 5 nights a week and lost her kid to the state? NO! So WHY do women go after guys like that?!

Childish!

[James]

the reason a girl goes for a bad boy is because all women and men want wat they cant have, wether its a material item or an emotional bond etc
simmilar to a cat with a piece of string. if u give the cat the string (nice guy) it will play with it for a small amount of time, then get bored
if u dont give the cat the string, it will show brief but little interest however if u dangle the string just above the cats head it will forever chase it (bad boy) it wants wat it cant physically have, its there infront of it, it can see it every now and then get a hold of it, but can never truly catch it,,,this is called the push pull technique, if u want a girls interest then after a while of talking to her, cut her loose, become un-interested (or pretend u are) shell come running, because women are insecure (much like a few of u blokes who cant get a girl) a woman wants an alpha male whos secure knows what he wants, wants that girl too, but doesnt need her. the reason u see ugly blokes with models is becasue theyre alpha, they either have the most/best status and money, looks, or personality. personality will always count, women get bored easilly, so being a nice guy push over will never work...u want a girl, grow a pair. show her a soft side everynow and then, and then take that away from her for a bit, then show it again..she wont kow how to figure u out and suddenly UR INTERESTING x

[Monica]

girls don't start liking the guy that's treat them bad immediatly. they feel inadequate. besides guys usually are nice to them until they get to know that he turns out to be a jerk it's too late.

this is very true. guys seem to have a switch on them that they know how a girl wants to be treated and after she trust him he turns on her. I have to say the look of a bad boy catches my eye but so do the nicely dressed guys. I do tend to be used as a doormat because i wear my heart on my sleeve and can be figured out easily. I don't want a badboy but at the same time I want a guy that isn't scared to stand up for me if need be.

[funny]

Re: why do girls go for the guys that treat um bad?

i think some woman want to be with bad guy for protection thinking his bad so no body cant mess with her but they are rong because they are the only one that will get beat up and they should realise that bad guys will shortin they lives
i will not call my self a good guy but i can truley say ive never beat a woman before they have don so many things to me to hit them but i belive it will not solf the problem woman will do everything to get that devil out so you can do something crasy they know what to say and do so you will beat them up but i know men just dont stay and beat a lidy without a reason its because they cant take anymore i also think men fall in love deeper than woman