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[LM]

Like it or not, many women ARE drawn towards a guy who aggressively pursues what he wants. And we like to be what HE wants. Unfortunately, you MUST be present to win in this game. If you don't have the guts to ask anyone out on a date, how many dates do you think you'll get? If you are so afraid of rejection or failure that you don't pursue what you want, how do you expect it to come to you? Unfortunately for a lot of men and women, the 'bad' boys seem to get the girls... At least at first.... Because they are not afraid to show their interest. Not afraid to show what they think they have to offer... Any woman who values herself is not going to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't value her. Nor is she likely to get into a relationship with someone who doesn't pursue it to begin with.

[Amit]

U all r right they want the guy who is a rebel & who does mean things. they want to be the person to change his ways & improve him. they want that satisfaction.

[Einjo]

You know what?? this is very interesting, Subconsciously we tend to date men who are reflections of the men who have some sort of influence on us throughout our lives. But we dont admit it because we woman cannot see it, so therefore there's nothing to admit because its just not there.
For others it maybe a whole different situation, some of us long for adventure and maybe she jus saw you as a bff not a bf, im really sorry that you were hurt by this gril but you have got to remember we girls are only human, we dont get it right the first time but we will get it right. . . >
Asking a question like this is like us turning around and saying "why do guys only go for gurls who are skinny gold digging air heads???

Lets jus narrow it down to this: (this goes for both male and female)
We never take the time to take a really good look at whats in front of us, one day youl see that you never know what you got until its gone

[xavier]

ummmmmmmmm man tz lyk u guyz r tryng to write a novel or somthng nnnnnnnnnneeway u no wot i thnk i think that ur spending way to much time wondering why they dont like you instead of moving on thats what i do if they dont like you for who you r dont even bother with them c tz as simple as 1to10 so stop goin 4 som1 who dosent lyk you tz really annoyingtrust me on dis 1

[The Pink Panthers In]

From what I have experienced so far is that the girls will always choose a "bad boy" over a "nice guy", reason being is the perception that the "bad boy" is more fun to be with. Another way is that infamous "Game" we play.

But thats 50%

[luckygal09]

I agree with Lucia, except that when you find out you're pregnant and the guy wants nothing to do with responsibility, nor ready to settle down, what are you supposed to do? I chose to raise my son on my own with help from my family. I tried, and still trying, to find that guy who really IS ready to settle down (especially hard to find someone when you already have a child). I used to be that girl that wanted the 'bad boy', probably for the excitement, because I was younger. Now that I am more mature I realize that isn't what life is all about. Don't get me wrong, I still like to have a good time, just a little more carefully these days. Guys look for the bad girls, too. Not all guys/girls are the same, it's just hard to find the good ones.

[MiSgUiDeD AnGeL]

as question sez,, why do girls do that? reason i ask is because i rekon im a decent guy i got 3 jobs,i treat girls with respect,,then u seem 2 be getting some where,then all of a sudden the convo n txting stops,,then u find out she starting to date a nob head,,is it because they want status hence y they d8 these fools?

Answer: Maybe you are dating the wrong type of girls. Some girls like gentlemen...it's just a myth people make up that all girls love bad guys. Just try meeting girls some where respectable & they will come.

Not every girl in this world likes to be treated like shit. Remember that.
Girls probably would like someone who is balanced the best. Meaning neither a gentlemen or a bad ass.

[yo]

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Naw...uhms... maybee girLs are just drawn tew soeMthink that's n them...May be their bahd boi nature kyndah thing...???

[yo]

ummmmmmmmm man tz lyk u guyz r tryng to write a novel or somthng nnnnnnnnnneeway u no wot i thnk i think that ur spending way to much time wondering why they dont like you instead of moving on thats what i do if they dont like you for who you r dont even bother with them c tz as simple as 1to10 so stop goin 4 som1 who dosent lyk you tz really annoyingtrust me on dis 1


What i sae tew that..!!

maybee for some people ihts hard tew move awn...??? i dnau why i say this buh yeah...i've xperienced uhmm yeah first time L o V e with i thoRt was ah a bahd guyy...nd yihp sure enuhffs mMm yuhp he was,,,

soOe yeah soMe people just kaRnt seem tew hewLp dehM sewLves???

[Caroline]

You guys need to remember that it works both ways. Why do the good guys always go for the girl who is a "princess" or "B". I see so many girls who treat their guys like dirt, yet these guys will do anything for those girls. I'm a nice girl, take care of myself, good shape, attractive....I'll cook you a great homemade meal, do your laundry, cut the grass....not afraid to break a nail, but the nice guys never want me. Well think they do at first, but then I turn out to be "nice". They want the bleach blonde bimbo who wants to be chauffered around, spends all her money (and yours) on herself (her wardrobe, manicures, hair). Seems the bad boys always gravitate towards me because maybe they want the mother they never had??? Who knows why things work the way they do, but I'll tell you one thing....I'm getting pretty sick of the bad boy. Maybe you can figure it out cuz I sure can't