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Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Michael Heffelfinger on Thu Mar 12, 2009 12:58 pm

I always Have the worse luck . all my girlfriends cheat on Me I hate it. I always know when their lying I study their body Language . I Hate being cheated on I Wish I can find someone who Is honest as they are beautiful still no luck on my behalf . I Hate Being Alone I don't even get a john dear letter. I always have been honest with all my girlfriends why don't they give me the same respect in return. Honesty Is a major key concept in keeping a healthy relationship . When secrects are kept hidden unexpected events can reveal them .

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Karmallama on Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:11 pm

Don't John Deere make tractors and agricultural vehicles? Why would you want a letter from them?

On a more serious note, it sounds like you need to be more assertive in your relationships. The women you've been with seem to know that you won't be out there playing the field and have gotten too comfy with the relationship, then gone looking for excitement. Keep 'em guessing and keep it exciting and they won't need to look elsewhere.

All that said, I'm single, so can you trust MY advice either? :D

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Laura on Fri Mar 13, 2009 1:40 pm

I know there are alot of girls that will line up a new boyfriend before they leave the one they have. For that matter guys do it too. It doesnt seem to make much sense to me. Its common to want to see if others find you attractive or maybe its an insecurity thing on their part. Not wanting to be alone. You said you see the difference in body language and behavior. Maybe when that starts thats your sign to look into what is going on with her or end it.

An easy solution would be to keep things casual and stay dating for a long time. You could both get to know eachother better and decide if its worth going into a relationship, and as mentioned above it will keep them guessing a bit too. It's easier to stop dating than it is to end a relationship.

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Michael Heffelfinger on Tue Mar 17, 2009 5:57 am

Karmallama wrote:Don't John Deere make tractors and agricultural vehicles? Why would you want a letter from them?

On a more serious note, it sounds like you need to be more assertive in your relationships. The women you've been with seem to know that you won't be out there playing the field and have gotten too comfy with the relationship, then gone looking for excitement. Keep 'em guessing and keep it exciting and they won't need to look elsewhere.

All that said, I'm single, so can you trust MY advice either? :D

A john deer letter is a type ofbreak up letter

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Michael Heffelfinger on Tue Mar 17, 2009 6:00 am

[quote="Karmallama"]Don't John Deere make tractors and agricultural vehicles? Why would you want a letter from them?

On a more serious note, it sounds like you need to be more assertive in your relationships. The women you've been with seem to know that you won't be out there playing the field and have gotten too comfy with the relationship, then gone looking for excitement. Keep 'em guessing and keep it exciting and they won't need to look elsewhere.

All that said, I'm single, so can you trust MY advice either? :D[/quote
A john deer letter is a break up letter .

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Michael Heffelfinger on Tue Mar 17, 2009 6:02 am

Laura wrote:I know there are alot of girls that will line up a new boyfriend before they leave the one they have. For that matter guys do it too. It doesnt seem to make much sense to me. Its common to want to see if others find you attractive or maybe its an insecurity thing on their part. Not wanting to be alone. You said you see the difference in body language and behavior. Maybe when that starts thats your sign to look into what is going on with her or end it.

An easy solution would be to keep things casual and stay dating for a long time. You could both get to know eachother better and decide if its worth going into a relationship, and as mentioned above it will keep them guessing a bit too. It's easier to stop dating than it is to end a relationship.

I just found out She not just intrested in guy but girls too

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Richard on Tue Mar 17, 2009 11:17 pm

Karmallama wrote:Don't John Deere make tractors and agricultural vehicles? Why would you want a letter from them?

On a more serious note, it sounds like you need to be more assertive in your relationships. The women you've been with seem to know that you won't be out there playing the field and have gotten too comfy with the relationship, then gone looking for excitement. Keep 'em guessing and keep it exciting and they won't need to look elsewhere.

All that said, I'm single, so can you trust MY advice either? :D


Yeah i pretty much agree with this. Women tend to cheat when they're not satisfied in their current relationship.

Yes really they should get out of it before they go with someone else, but perhaps they haven't quite realised themselves yet that they're not happy, the other guy comes along before they've had a chance to think it all through properly and finish it.

Some women are just bitches with no morals.

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Laura on Mon Mar 23, 2009 8:18 am

Oh come on now. Its girls and guys. Sometimes its about meeting a person in the same emotional place as yourself.

Sometimes people want to just date, some want open dating, some exclusive relationships, and some are looking for that perfect person to settle down with.
I would suppose some are expirementing their sexuality as well. Case in point she is interested in girls too.

This isnt someone that wants to be a steady girlfriend. As all the cards start to be laid down it is time to ask yourself if this is going in a direction good for you. If its not you will both know it. The hard part is seeing and admitting it and finally ending it because it wont make you happy.

In short... You wouldnt have wanted her anyway!

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Michael Heffelfinger on Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:08 pm

Laura wrote:Oh come on now. Its girls and guys. Sometimes its about meeting a person in the same emotional place as yourself.

Sometimes people want to just date, some want open dating, some exclusive relationships, and some are looking for that perfect person to settle down with.
I would suppose some are expirementing their sexuality as well. Case in point she is interested in girls too.

This isnt someone that wants to be a steady girlfriend. As all the cards start to be laid down it is time to ask yourself if this is going in a direction good for you. If its not you will both know it. The hard part is seeing and admitting it and finally ending it because it wont make you happy.

In short... You wouldnt have wanted her anyway!

I have Searched High and low for a new porpose in life still haven't found one yet . I have lost all sense in my life since my last girl friend whom i was engaged to died on her way home from Nabraska 2 christmas's ago my last girl friend rachel who i thought was the one had a dark past we promised to be 100 precent honest in our relationship I told her all my personally guarded secrets . She told me that she would never do anything to hurt me . I protected her many times physically and emotionally I stood up for her and she let me down my heart has shattered for the last and final time. I don't think the last tiny piece of my heart is enough to ever love again my pain turned from hate a finally stopped at anger which guards that last piece of my shattered heart. I hate the meaning of love if love i can not find. The world is so heartless and cold.

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Michael Heffelfinger on Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:18 pm

Richard wrote:
Karmallama wrote:Don't John Deere make tractors and agricultural vehicles? Why would you want a letter from them?

On a more serious note, it sounds like you need to be more assertive in your relationships. The women you've been with seem to know that you won't be out there playing the field and have gotten too comfy with the relationship, then gone looking for excitement. Keep 'em guessing and keep it exciting and they won't need to look elsewhere.

All that said, I'm single, so can you trust MY advice either? :D


Yeah i pretty much agree with this. Women tend to cheat when they're not satisfied in their current relationship.

Yes really they should get out of it before they go with someone else, but perhaps they haven't quite realised themselves yet that they're not happy, the other guy comes along before they've had a chance to think it all through properly and finish it.

Some women are just bitches with no morals.

I your saying I should be more assertive . I have always been forward in all my relationships . Finding the right person is hard work still My life has gone to hell I put my Defenses back up brushing away anyone who wants to get close to me Trust Is a key Factor In Having A Sucessful relationship don't you think so.

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