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Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Mr. Fweats 28 days, 9 hours ago

Michael Heffelfinger wrote:
Laura wrote:Oh come on now. Its girls and guys. Sometimes its about meeting a person in the same emotional place as yourself.

Sometimes people want to just date, some want open dating, some exclusive relationships, and some are looking for that perfect person to settle down with.
I would suppose some are expirementing their sexuality as well. Case in point she is interested in girls too.

This isnt someone that wants to be a steady girlfriend. As all the cards start to be laid down it is time to ask yourself if this is going in a direction good for you. If its not you will both know it. The hard part is seeing and admitting it and finally ending it because it wont make you happy.

In short... You wouldnt have wanted her anyway!

I have Searched High and low for a new porpose in life still haven't found one yet . I have lost all sense in my life since my last girl friend whom i was engaged to died on her way home from Nabraska 2 christmas's ago my last girl friend rachel who i thought was the one had a dark past we promised to be 100 precent honest in our relationship I told her all my personally guarded secrets . She told me that she would never do anything to hurt me . I protected her many times physically and emotionally I stood up for her and she let me down my heart has shattered for the last and final time. I don't think the last tiny piece of my heart is enough to ever love again my pain turned from hate a finally stopped at anger which guards that last piece of my shattered heart. I hate the meaning of love if love i can not find. The world is so heartless and cold.


Hehehe I'm not laughting about you, but about me since what you're writting like quite hell like some of my experiences. I have learn one rule in relationship that is sad but true, today :

(Before reading, I know that what's following can sound like crazy and stupid, but it's a bit like a "picture". You can change the named item for any other that come to your mind and seems like the one mentionned)

What girls need, around young adult ages, it's a guys that is like a steel dildo : Can have fun with but still can use it to defend themselves again bastards (have you even been hit by one of those? I don't and never want to be hit by one of those. Which mean they're a badass weapon! :lol:). They don't give a shit about a big steel shield since they can't have fun with it and it's heavy to bring alone. They don't want a plastic dildo since it break too easily if it's not for fun.
So, become the steel dildo to become both the fun and the protection source for your girl...

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby James 26 days, 20 hours ago

Hey michael. i had a theory about your dilems. maybe you were a gambler in a past life. and cheated ###w the tables have turned iys time for payback.. other than that mate yer as lucky as me.

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Mr. Fweats 26 days, 19 hours ago

James wrote:Hey michael. i had a theory about your dilems. maybe you were a gambler in a past life. and cheated ###w the tables have turned iys time for payback.. other than that mate yer as lucky as me.


In my past life, I was a rock... and I have been thrown aways while in a civil war...
Today, I'm a human... and still am thown away in a love war...
Tomorrow, I'll be a credit card... and I'll be thrown into depts.


Sorry, but when I read about life before life, I always come up with this kind of things... But it made me laught a bit :lol:

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Danny Boy 23 days, 6 hours ago

its a dear john letter not a john deer letter.........

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Liz 23 days, 4 hours ago

why? because maybe you didn't take the time to get to know them before actually getting involved with them. same with males. we're all the same. getting to know each other wouldn't hurt. it's called getting to know each other to see if they're the person you're looking for. and if they cheat then forget them. someone will come along. and i believe in karma, what goes around always comes back around. so keep doing what you're doing because your queen is somewhere out there. dont let one female or even ten females lose your hope in finding that loyal chick that will make you the happiest man on ear\th.

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Jordan 16 days, 9 hours ago

I hate this as well... i think your having this problem because you are most likely attracted to the same type of women... who all just happen to be cheaters... try changing it up a little bit by looking at other types of women.

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Re: Why Do all the girls I go out with Cheat on me

Postby Vince 15 days, 17 hours ago

i too have been cheated on many time. every girl except 1 has cheated. they were different sorts of girls too. like a christian family going sort of girl to the girl i can get stoned with. even 1 was a virgin and she was the last person i expected to cheat. just 2 weeks after losing her virginity. had she lost it before i got with her i wouldve seen what a skank she was and stayed away. but because of being cheated on it does lower self esteem and confidence in a person significantly. it makes it harder for us to go up and ask a girl on a date or whatever as we feel "whats the point? she'l just reject me or cheat on me as well." and once you've put up your "barrier" to help u avoid being heart broken again it is very difficult to ever let anyone in.
i for 1 do not think it too hard for the girl to say "its over" if she dont want to be with u anymore. and if she was to meet someone else then why not see how she feels before cheating. its like they dont think about how it would feel if it was the other way around and they really liked the guy and then he cheated on her. no one likes to be cheated on or made a fool of so they shouldnt do it to others.

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