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Why Cant Gamers find someone?
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Re: Why Cant Gamers find someone?
Ronnie wrote:I'm a gamer, although mine are tabletop RPG's and Wargames rather than computer games and when that subject comes up you get looked at like your carrying the plague.
Its a sad world where beliggerent drunks are seen as a better catch than a tee-total gamer.
I'd rather have a tee-total gamer any day than a drunk. My kids got me into some games and I do play but only a little and when I'm hurting so bad I can't do anything else.
My son was a big Dungeon and Dragon gamer for years, now computer games but he knows when to get off. He has found a wonderful lady so it can happen.
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Lady1st - Posts: 28
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few months ago u would concider me a hardcore gamer but since comming on FreeHookup i concider myself a gamer AFTER FreeHookup games
or wen im realy bored or angry to shoot the crap out of people lol
tbh gonna play some et now..... boards are bit slow atm

tbh gonna play some et now..... boards are bit slow atm
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ALPHA - Posts: 1626
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Lady1st,
Gotta say you are a rare breed then cos I said before, most women look at you like your a freak.
Gotta say you are a rare breed then cos I said before, most women look at you like your a freak.
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Ronnie - Posts: 271
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Ava wrote:I'm wondering how many other women (or men, for that matter) may see it this way, hence the quick escape.
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That's true. A lot guys look at me like I'm strange when they find out I game. They really don't get it. Because I do the same thing I've both kinds of gamers: the kind that are obsessed and the kind that keep it in check. If you're not a gamer then you don't meet as many and might be meeting the ones that drive you ( and me) nuts. I don't along with the obsessed ones. Friends yes but it nothing more than that.
Here's a bit of a twist on it maybe: I write. If I'm creating a new character and need some advice there are two kinds of people that I go to for advice if I want it or a second opinion. The first group is, obviously, fellow writers in the genres I primarily write in and people who read as much as I do ( usually write too a bit, at least in my life) and the second group is gamers, especially LARPrs. They understand what I'm trying to create, especially with fantasy and oft times come up with some good ideas. I love men that are creative and sometimes gamers can be very creative. It's great.
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Mattie - Posts: 42
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Well, I write fiction and am also a GM for RPG's so I write my own scenarios as well. Nice to see that we are seen as a source of inspiration or advice

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Ronnie - Posts: 271
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Ronnie wrote:Well, I write fiction and am also a GM for RPG's so I write my own scenarios as well. Nice to see that we are seen as a source of inspiration or advice![]()
Absolutely. I come up with a ton of ideas when I game but sometimes I need that outside opinion and gamers are great for that: same mind-set and always know exactly what I'm talking about. You would be perfect as a source.
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Mattie - Posts: 42
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More than happy to help. Add me as a friend if you want and then when you want to throw me an idea do so.
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Ronnie - Posts: 271
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It is all about balance.
I love video games, football, tv and films and travelling. If a person only like games and nothing else, that is no good.
Would people rather go out and get drunk and watch Coronation Street like a proper normal person.
I love video games, football, tv and films and travelling. If a person only like games and nothing else, that is no good.
Would people rather go out and get drunk and watch Coronation Street like a proper normal person.

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Legendary (Michael) - Posts: 188
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Seeing how I don't watch Soaps and am tee-total and have never been drunk, I'm kinda glad I'm not normal
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Ronnie - Posts: 271
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Ronnie wrote:More than happy to help. Add me as a friend if you want and then when you want to throw me an idea do so.
What name are you on FB under? I looked but didnt' see it on your profile. I'd be happy to add you:)
Coronation Street? Nah, soaps were never my thing. usually Keeping Up Appearances, Monty Python, Red Dwarf, Are You Being Served....those are some of my favourites

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