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[good4u]

Here is a novel idea, Justin....why don't you just straight out ask her and tell her what you told us, but maybe in less crass words, uh? I appreciate honesty, but not brutal honesty. It will help clear the air between you two.

[JohnW]

Here is a novel idea, Justin....why don't you just straight out ask her and tell her what you told us, but maybe in less crass words, uh? I appreciate honesty, but not brutal honesty. It will help clear the air between you two.

Yeah I agree, the only way you'll really know is to ask her straight out, everyone is different you know Justin!

[Justin Petrick]

Yeah, I agree. Were going to the zoo on sunday, so I'll talk to her about it then. Now she says she wants to hang out, she just needed her space the other night. :/

When I think I am coming close to figuring out women.....they throw me a doozy. I don't know what's going on. But I like her....thats the problem.

Peace.

[mike.d.martinez]

The insecure folks on this board would do really well to read this thread. We all have the same experience. The ups and the downs. There is no magic bullet.

[Reginald J]

When a girl say yes does she really want it??

[luis alberto]

Maybe she means exactly what she says. Maybe she sees you as someone thats ready to settle down in a relationship but she isn't and she doesn't want to hurt you.

[good4u]

If what Misty says is true then Justin needs a clear straight answer from this girl. But geeze, that is a lot to ask of this girl, she may not be ready to give a clear answer just yet because she may not be able to make a decision that quickly. That's a lot of pressure to put on a brand new relationship only after 2 outings---geeze, I'd feel a bit of pressure too. Did u say how old this girl is, Justin?

There is nothing wrong with this girl needing her "space" btw. Justin, remember, you need ur space too so don't crowd her. Everybody needs breathing room...to grow into a relationship...who knows, maybe she might even miss you...how nice....

[Justin Petrick]

If what Misty says is true then Justin needs a clear straight answer from this girl. But geeze, that is a lot to ask of this girl, she may not be ready to give a clear answer just yet because she may not be able to make a decision that quickly. That's a lot of pressure to put on a brand new relationship only after 2 outings---geeze, I'd feel a bit of pressure too. Did u say how old this girl is, Justin?

There is nothing wrong with this girl needing her "space" btw. Justin, remember, you need ur space too so don't crowd her. Everybody needs breathing room...to grow into a relationship...who knows, maybe she might even miss you...how nice....

She is 35. And the thing was that we had already made plans on our 2nd date for that evening. So that afternoon I confirmed it and then she said the space thing....thats what I suppose was so confusing to me.

So, I gave her her space today and didn't text her all day other than hashing things out a bit (hence my previous post), and making plans to hit the zoo sunday. And Good4U you couldn't have been more right. She just texted me "Ive been thinking about you".....and so on, and asked me to come over tonight. I am thinking I shouldn't go over, but I am. :/ When I have it for a girl I am such a pushover. F**k. But she melts me, I can't help it.

Peace.

[good4u]

I love being right and generally I give good, straight advice. I don't play games and am a straight shooter.

Damn, now if I only could take my own advice I give others.

At any rate, give us a report back on Sunday, Justin on how things went. We will revist.

[Richard]

I'd say USUALLY it means shes just not ATTRACTED to u enough. Its just her way of not getting involved without hurting ur feelings and making u feel like a good guy still. When women are attracted to a man enough they will do almost anything to be with him.

Remember i did say usually though. There may be a few exceptions to the rule.