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[mightymtdew]

What would you do if you Loved a girl but she is already going with someone? I have never felt the way I do for anyone like I do her. I just don't want to make things difficult for her or make her choose one or the other. I think that is being selfish. Please let me know what you think. Thanks and God Bless! Chris

[Jilly]

What would you do if you Loved a girl but she is already going with someone? I have never felt the way I do for anyone like I do her. I just don't want to make things difficult for her or make her choose one or the other. I think that is being selfish. Please let me know what you think. Thanks and God Bless! Chris

I'm sorry, but my opinion is to leave her be. She is with someone and unless that changes (without your input), you have to respect that and move on. She's taken, that's all there is to it. Harsh, but true.

[Faz]

i agree with jily but i would make sure that the girl you are in love with knows you love her but dont say anything rash like break up your boyfriend for me, but just say that if she ever does break up with him that you are there for her and want her as a partner. thats what i would do anyway.

[Lauren]

I disagree with Faz. I have this guy who has made it no secret (during his 1st marriage) he would be interested in dating me if I was available. He has now been divorced 2 times and still tells me we need to date. He is great as a friend but I must say everytime he mentions it I pull away cause I dont want to send the wrong signals. Right now we are both single so he has really been mentioning it more and more which puts a lot of stress on me. So if your in love with her, be there for her, support her in her current relationship. If she doesnt show interest eventually, causing them to break up based on the growing interest in you, then its not meant to be. If she doesnt show interest (if they break up) after you have told her how you feel then back off and be there as a friend...If its too hard to just be friends (and I get that) then move on (as Jill said) and fullfill your llife with someone else. Ever seen "Wedding Date"? Sounds like what you got going on.