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[AMSchroeder]

i have met alot of people online and in person. I have gone on dates with different guys, i have also just hung out with guys in a laid back setting. and after 2 or 3 weeks they all seem to tell me that they dont want a girlfriend right now or that they just want to be friends with me. yet they always tell me that its not me and that i am a a great girl and blah blah blah. but why does things like that always happen? do they just lose interest?

[Hobbs123]

You gotta be who you are...people like that if they dont like you for who you are there loss...

[bananagirl]

well said Hobbs

[Bookgirl1990]

yea thats all u have to do, just be yourself, for you are the only one who can be you, no matter what, and as Hobbs said, it is there loss

[roughneck87]

Sounds like you and I have something in common.so whats your first name? if you dont mind me askin?there are alot of ###l

[cigotchu84]

As the great Hobbs said, just be yourself. I'm pretty sure your a great person with a lot to offer, just don't take it offensive and try to move forward which I know you most likely already are. It could also be that you seem to be attracted to guys who just exited a previous relationship and are focusing on themselves or.... they are actually jerks trying to take advantage of you but noticing that you are a genuine good girl, they try to make an excuse to get out of it. Sorry if I come across too blunt, it does happen.

[Ryan]

well im not sure what there problem could be..you look like a beutiful girl and definetly seems like you got your head on straight...maybe you are goin on dates with gays or somethin lol...

[Ryan]

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[Alan Alpha]

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smooth

got to agree with hobbs BUT

us guys cant take hints that well if u like them but not realy showing it we start to loose interest in u that way and tend to go into the dreaded "Friend zone"

[Sharad]

Let me be first to apologize for my species, us lads can be douches on occasion. Don't let this dishearten you though, I'm sure you'll find the person you're looking for soon. So keep your chin up