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WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
This is a complicated question, so any quick, easy answer is likely to be inaccurate. That being said, here's my take on it:
1. Women like to maintain intimacy -- whereas men come and go with it. We can deal with your ebb and flow pattern more easily if you can give us consistent reassurance that, although you don't want to be close right now, you're coming back.
2. I need to feel that my needs matter equally with my partner's. Sexism rears its ugly head in relationships when men offer us situations that are innately unfair, and we accept them. We all have work to do on creating fair, balanced relationships. Ideally, we have, as our goal, that we look for solutions that work for both.
3. Women usually like to bond with those they love. I tell my partners that what I want, most of all, is your TIME and ATTENTION. After that, everything is gravy. This doesn't mean all your time and attention -- it means consistent time and attention. Don't go away and stop responding to me, then come back expecting to pick up in the same spot.
4. I want someone who has his own interests, passions, and life, and feels happy that I have mine, too. Togetherness is balanced by separate pursuits.
5. Most women want a fun, exciting sex life. Of course, all people are different on this, but healthy women like sex, want it, and want to have it frequently with a man they love. When sex falls out of a relationship, no one wins.
6. Most women want stability -- your life is settled enough to build a future on. Especially if we have kids. I'll add to that, I've recovered long since from the addictions of my youth, and am looking for someone who has also traveled that path. No dysfunctional relationship for this chica.
That's not all, but it's a start in the right direction.
1. Women like to maintain intimacy -- whereas men come and go with it. We can deal with your ebb and flow pattern more easily if you can give us consistent reassurance that, although you don't want to be close right now, you're coming back.
2. I need to feel that my needs matter equally with my partner's. Sexism rears its ugly head in relationships when men offer us situations that are innately unfair, and we accept them. We all have work to do on creating fair, balanced relationships. Ideally, we have, as our goal, that we look for solutions that work for both.
3. Women usually like to bond with those they love. I tell my partners that what I want, most of all, is your TIME and ATTENTION. After that, everything is gravy. This doesn't mean all your time and attention -- it means consistent time and attention. Don't go away and stop responding to me, then come back expecting to pick up in the same spot.
4. I want someone who has his own interests, passions, and life, and feels happy that I have mine, too. Togetherness is balanced by separate pursuits.
5. Most women want a fun, exciting sex life. Of course, all people are different on this, but healthy women like sex, want it, and want to have it frequently with a man they love. When sex falls out of a relationship, no one wins.
6. Most women want stability -- your life is settled enough to build a future on. Especially if we have kids. I'll add to that, I've recovered long since from the addictions of my youth, and am looking for someone who has also traveled that path. No dysfunctional relationship for this chica.
That's not all, but it's a start in the right direction.
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Meliesa - Posts: 4
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
Ian wrote:I am what women want![]()
I love it!!
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Monika - Posts: 118
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
women just want to be loved

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pachuko - Posts: 2
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
Women are made to be loved not understood
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Brian - Posts: 1
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
money and sex
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scop - Posts: 1
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
I think here is no more right answers...no conclusion and no solutions

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Tracey Leigh - Posts: 17
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
Dino wrote:Well, in that case, buy yourself a man whore.![]()

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Eric - Posts: 7
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
What don't women want?
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yesiamreal - Posts: 1
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
koi nai janta ki ladkiyan chahti kya hai jo jan jata hai vo is duniya ka sabse free mind insaan hoga
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razzz - Posts: 1
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Re: WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
In my opinion, women really don't know what they actually want!!! They might think that they do, but it is so overrated!!! Some might think they want love, some might think they want sex, some might think they want money, but in reality, in most cases, you can't always get what you want. Sometimes you just have to take whatever you can get. Women are human just like men, but one day a woman will want love, then the next day she will change her mind and then say that she wants sex now. Men is always going to want the same things everyday. Let's face it, us, women can't make up our mind half the damn time, so in that case, we don't know what the hell we want. That is why you hear men calling women complicated. That is just in my opinion, hope not to offend anyone. Sorry if I did.
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