Community

[Char]

it's kind of a funny question cause there is heaps of research saying that there are more differences

between Women as a Group or Men as a Group then between the genders!

we really need to talk about our social expectations of gender roles and the double standards we maintain everyday if we really really want to understand what the Other wants

[Denis]

I can't tell you what other women want but can tell you what I want....I want a man that is my partner, friend, lover and confidant. I want to be loved and appreciated and supported in all areas of my life. I want someone I can cry with, laugh with and just exist with....is that too much too ask for?

Its the only thing worth asking for.

[bobo]

sounds great,but sadly when you get what you want , most females want something different , i have been married to the same lady for 40 yrs and i love her to bits, i do all the cooking , all the repairs and diy
we are so close on how we think and act its scary, but ask me do i know what women want? not a hope in hell do i have the answer, because you keep changing your mind , not once,but all the time,and i have lots of friends who are married,couples who have exactly the same problem, women change with the weather

i agree wit u rob women like wheather they change all the time. they even dont know what they want

[Amanda]

I see what rob is saying but what a woman needs is someone to complement them. I am not talking about verbal complements but being complementary with the person youre dating -- if you 'mesh' well together. perhaps all of the men that have replied to this posting have not come across their perfect complement yet. Also refer to my previous post for more details..

[Jaguar]

they want to dominate, but then say you are a weakling , so you stand up to them,then you become overbearing ,you take the lead in sex,you are a pervert, you wait for them to make the move ,they accuse you of seeing someone else, you bring them flowers they ask why, you dont bring them any ,you are not romantic, they say you never help in the home,then criticise your efforts to make dinner or iron the bed sheets , they want you to say you love them all the time , then when you do says its getting ion their nerves, they want you to cuddle them,but they never cuddle you. When you first meet a new girl,its usually when a group of guys meet a group of girls and you slowly pair off, then they convince you to stop seeing your friends so you can spend more time together , then they change the way you dress, your hairstyle ,what you drink, your eating habits and the places you go , then one day you get a text saying your not anything like the guy they first met, bloody right, they changed you and dont like the job they did so went out to find someone else to change
do i understand women, NO, and they dont understand themselves.

that made me laugh.
You're right to a point.

[Nikhil]

i think that they just want money

[bobo]

nice expensive holidays(free), expect expensive presents,partner who should cook for them,do most of the house work,pay all the bills,have sex just when they want,look after kids, etc. i sound like im against women but im not really plus im NOT gay either its just my exprienced so far but im not saying all women same or all men angel or anything maybe i was unlucky with my relationships anyway i quite enjoying read people posts thank u all

[David]

At a guess someone who's there for them when the going gets tough!! or MONEY

[Rosemarie]

A mature women has what she wants. It helps her be what a man wants by instinct.

Going into a relationship without that offers nothing to a man or herself.

[Jaguar]

Most of you have watched far too many movies.
Seriously.
Generalizing all women into one category of "all they want is money"
is so narrow minded, it's unbelievable.